"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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iHatePants

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anyone else noticing the influx of these total afc's in your nieghbourhood?

Surprisingly alot of the girls in my nieghbourhood are into them. This boggles my mind because all emo kids do is whine and complain and cry. They talk shyt like thier gonna cut themselves, but they never get around to it.

Makes DJing difficult when you have alot of these guys in your area. Lots of emo girls where I live.

Anyone else hate emo kids?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by iHatePants
anyone else noticing the influx of these total afc's in your nieghbourhood?

Surprisingly alot of the girls in my nieghbourhood are into them. This boggles my mind because all emo kids do is whine and complain and cry. They talk shyt like thier gonna cut themselves, but they never get around to it.

Makes DJing difficult when you have alot of these guys in your area. Lots of emo girls where I live.

Anyone else hate emo kids?
Right.

How does it make "DJing" difficult?
 

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Re: Re: emo kids

Originally posted by sifer
Right.

How does it make "DJing" difficult?
Because the emo guy are all sensitive and crap. Even the really hot girls are starting to find that attractive, and are giving these guys all thier attention.

Where ever I go now I see all these girls hanging out with emo kids and it always seems like the girl is trying to comfort him.
 

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Fellas,

Emo guys are like the goth guys from 5 years ago, or the prep guys from the grunge era.

I tend to think of it this way: none of these labels are musical styles, although people seem to think they are. Emo is just pop-punk. Goth is just black metal/death metal etc., and prep music is just AOR pop. Even grunge is just rock n roll.

They're just buying into the "rebel" image "against" the current trend.

Being a ****y moron is the popular image(ie rap, hiphop), so being a ridiculously melancholy crybaby skinny kid is the exact opposite.

In the end, they are all just followers.
 

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don't hate anyone because your game is suffering...

to say all the hot girls are into "emo kids" is bullsh!t

you can't blame anyone but yourself

i have no idea how more of any type of person could be hurting your game...unless your town was suddenly taken over by super pimps :crackup:

the least you could do is get to know them and find more parties or people to hang out with

btw...last night at the mall i talked to this chick who had her wrist pierced! ouchies. although she told me it doesn't hurt?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sounds like someone's a bit on jealous side. ;)

AS
 

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I've found the whole 'emo' approach to be a quite useful tool in the DJ-tool chest.
 

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If you're consciously being EMO, you need to hang yourself ASAP. There is no cure for EMO, and there is no treatment. Well, no treatment that doesn't involve depriving your brain of oxygen until it dies :)
 

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Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
If you're consciously being EMO, you need to hang yourself ASAP. There is no cure for EMO, and there is no treatment. Well, no treatment that doesn't involve depriving your brain of oxygen until it dies :)
Emo is not an acronym, it's individual letters do not stand for anything, there is no need to capitalize the whole word...

Doesn't this thread strike anyone else as a bit ironic? Isn't sitting around whining about how emo kids are getting all the girls a rather emo thing to do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah, but he's pissed about it rather than crying and listening to "kill yourself" music.

The real irony is they dress to be different, but all end up dressing the same. Same thing with Punks.
 

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what exactly is an emo kid?

i'm thinking 'seth cohen'.
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
Emo is not an acronym, it's individual letters do not stand for anything, there is no need to capitalize the whole word...
EMPHASIS, you grammar-nazi :)
 

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My last primary was really into emo music and said she loved all these whiny emo musicians. It was interesting to see that she had a ton of guy "friends" that wanted to b0ne her but she always turned them down for being - you guessed it! - mega-AFC. I'm not into emo at all, unless you call bands like Air Supply and Journey emo. And we b0ned into the sunset...

It shouldn't make your game any harder unless you let it psych yourself out. So don't do that.
 

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educate an old man please. what the fukk is an emo?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's short for "emotional".

It means a guy (or girl) who is overly sensitive, thinks the world sucks, is often depressed, and listens to so called "emo" bands. They often wear black clothing, tight pants, have boxed glasses, and bleached highlights of black-dyed hair.

To put it all in one big stereotype. Kind of like a less angry more depressed Goth.
 

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so basically a depressed puzzy it seems. no wonder i've seen "emo" all over the place...bet emo boys are wonderful girlfriends.
 

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Emo, like anything, is just a trend.

I would find it ironic in the future if Don Juanning was a trend and everyone was listening to a sexified version of flamenco.

Having a hate for a certain group of people for what they dress like or their lack of confidence is a waste of energy and time. It is illogical and matters not to your life.

If these people are making you uncontrollably agitated, you're not busy enough in life and should take up a hobby or learn something.
 
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