"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Elena Solomon

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Read what women want by Elena Solomon. What do you think about her theory of attraction. I do agree about the part of being dominant. The rest of the stuff I don't know. What do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I haven't seen her stuff, but I'm considering it, since her stuff is a sponsoring site. 12 Simple Rules

There is, of course the rule that you shouldn't take relationship advice from a woman. I'd hope that her method is objective enough to get past the biases women bring that prevents them from saying what works.

anyway, I might get it in a week's time. I'd go for it now, but my budget is stopping me.
 

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I've got ahold of her materials. I'll post a review in another thread.
 

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LOL.

I have not read her stuff, so I have nothing to say about it.

I only know one thing (when it comes to attraction): pay attention to what women DO...not to what they say.
 
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