"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can do most of the techniques on this site with no problems. Ive had fantastic results with the "aloof-mysterious" type game. I get the number, and the date with ease. But i always go home after the date defeated. lol. I dont get mad or upset, i tweak my game a bit and go at it again. Im not sure if im missing a step in the process. Can anybody who uses, or atleast knows the mysterious game, tell me what they do in what order. Id like to compare tactics and see what the **** is happening? lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There isn't such thing as technique. It's your state of mind.


Simply put, you are at point A, and you going to point B. To accomplish that you must learn a lot of things. 1% of that is reading theory, such as your technique. The rest is practice.

You can not transform your mind in 1 or 2 dates, in 1 or 2 months, it takes longer.


Ingredient is taking a technique, 1% of the recipe, and then applying practice, 99% of the recipe. With time you will get there.



My advice is don't focus on one technique. Read them all and extract truth that lies under each one. David DeAngelo DVD would help you a lot.
 
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you don't want to seem aloof-mysterious on a date. that comes later. on a date, u want to create a a connection. you want to see if she's compatible with you. This is where you build a connection and then let her validate herself to you. bust her balls a little, only a few negs. remember, she doesn't even u know so being aloof is not the answer!

look, i understand the concept of being mysterious and aloof- they can't figure you out, ur playing hard to get, etc. But obviously she knows ur interested, ur on a freakin date for pete's sake! so why would u play hard to get?

Lastly, the idea of a date is to show her a great time and that ur an extremely fun person. you want to associate yourself as an outgoing, fun person to her and make a great impression. once you do that...then u can start being mysterious/aloof. sometimes u see her, sometimes u don't. sometimes ur warm, sometimes ur cold. sometimes u let her sit on ur lap, other times u tell her to get.

Sandow
 
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