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I think my head is screwed up today i went to a local mall and asked 3 girls out but it was easier to ask them out than actually make conversation, i still cant think of much to say appart from hi where can i get a coffe.hmmmmmmm i hope i can get this convo thing a bit better, how long should i be talking before asking these girls out .
 

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Originally posted by PANK
I think my head is screwed up today i went to a local mall and asked 3 girls out but it was easier to ask them out than actually make conversation, i still cant think of much to say appart from hi where can i get a coffe.hmmmmmmm i hope i can get this convo thing a bit better, how long should i be talking before asking these girls out .
Give us on some details about what you said. Did you actually GET the number or just ask? How long had you been talking to them? Where they cute?
 

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Not particularly hot no numbers this is my first time outside clubs i have done this i talked for maybe 1 minute with them not long cuz my convo skills are bull fcuk but i figured i would try now and screw up rather than just wait till i improve in theory then screw up.I think that i may as well get some practical experience.
 

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What did they say when you asked them out? It doesn't appear that you spent enough time building rapport. Practice, practice, practice.
 

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Want to get better at convo. Just ask them questions about themselves...

Where do you go to school?
What are you studying?
Do you like that?
What do you want to do with that?
Do you live near here?
What do you think about it?
Where do you want to go?
Do you like coffee?
Tea?
Beer?
Vodka?

You see what I'm saying? You never have to worry about convo if you direct and control the situation...make her talk. I say just making an effort is the hard part...
 

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Yeah yeah i like it mantius this was my first attemt i dont like hanging around too long asking crappy questions next time im gonna ask just a few more am gonna flirt a little more yeah its all good, The confidence thing thats ok getting rejected no problem just a few crappy questions til i totally start scoring. CHEERS oh one other thing i still dont know how long to keep up the small talk any suggestions???????
 

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That's what I'm saying G. Those questions are just something to pull from if you need to. Stay there no longer than like 3 minutes. 5 topz.

You're in you're out, no fingerprints left anywhere. You're golden.
 
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