"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Easy girls who go religious

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So I browse fb profiles from time to time to see what everyone is up to and I noticed -maybe not a pattern but at least a few examples- of girls who used to be quite...call it liberal...in college and known to be a bit easy who display some kind of newfound enlightenment through religion, will post Bible verses etc. How does that happen? Are they just trying to override their previous image? I'm a year out of college btw
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, I know a few of these. After the 20th bad boy, they realize how easy they get tossed out or ignored by the men they desire the most.

First, they get bitter and start hunting for good-looking losers. Usually when they're 23 to 27 y/o.

If still not married by then, they start looking for a decent guy with a house, car and regular job. By now, her objective is to get married within a year.

Funny thing is, this strategy actually seems to work for most of them. I just pity the guys willing to marry these conning creatures.
 

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I'm guessing it may be "guilt" from their wh0rish lifestyle. They need something to make them feel better, and God's forgiveness does just that. It doesn't mean that they've abandoned their wh0rish ways, it just means they have a vehicle to make them feel better after going on a fvck spree.
 

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Unstable, fickle individuals who have failed to form a strong identity and character, so they don't even know who they are and what they want.
 

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Yup. I see them all the time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is almost textbook behaviour according to a Red Pill lens.

These women have reached the Epiphany phase and shifted from optimising their hypergamy with an Alpha F strategy to a Beta Bucks strategy as they approach the Wall.

I realize that is a lot of specialized Red Pill words, but if the terminology is unfamiliar to you, it is relatively easy to learn about it.

I recommend you check Rollo Tomassi's posts about Preventive Medicine:
http://therationalmale.com/2014/03/16/preventative-medicine-part-i/
(there are 4 parts in total I think).

Or better yet, get the book:
http://therationalmale.com/2015/03/09/the-rational-male-preventive-medicine/
 

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mostly? guilty free pass, and having the "I changed when I find jesus" card.

pretty much tehy know pretty well anyone who respect himself will never commit anything then a simple cofee and a lay with her, so she start to spin this to look like she is a ok person now. of course they are not changed at all and if a alpha shows around she will open her legs to him, but will not leave the old for the new, since that would kill new new social circle.
 

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Religion is awesome at empowering those that want to do whatever they want in life. You go eat 10 babies, pray for forgiveness, then walk outside and look down on everyone else for not just coming out of a church like you just did. Religion in itself is not bad, but fanaticism in any form is a huge red flag no matter what the subject matter is.
 

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Religion is awesome at empowering those that want to do whatever they want in life. You go eat 10 babies, pray for forgiveness, then walk outside and look down on everyone else for not just coming out of a church like you just did. Religion in itself is not bad, but fanaticism in any form is a huge red flag no matter what the subject matter is.
and here I have to disagree, religion is a bad thing, its just a mass control tool who is still in use, also when less religious the person are more honest, and are the ones who are more likely to make a fortune with people use as a crutch to his life woes, if things are bad I just didn't prayed enough or if I want something done I just need to pray, for yers people say they pray everyday for a world without wars, well don't see that happening till religion is out of picture and people start to own they own problems and start to fix and solve things
 

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The justification of yourself being ****ty is best when it's based on a mystical ground with blurred boundaries that gives you an illusion of moral superiority.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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