“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

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Dumping my gf is really difficult

zinc4

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Because I can't find a logical reason for doing so.

She's great, is very good to me extremely loyal...goes out of her way to show me all of her social media contacts without me asking nor wanting to see them in the first place.

She supports me in anything I do, is down for anywhere I want to go or any activity I want to do. The sex is good. She doesn't party nor drink and is very trustworthy and submissive.....and really has her **** together so to speak. Always wants to see me and frequently talks about the future.

But for some reason I want to dump her and look for other chicks.

Perhaps I'm just not a one girl type of guy.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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zinc4 said:
Because I can't find a logical reason for doing so.

She's great, is very good to me extremely loyal...goes out of her way to show me all of her social media contacts without me asking nor wanting to see them in the first place.

She supports me in anything I do, is down for anywhere I want to go or any activity I want to do. The sex is good. She doesn't party nor drink and is very trustworthy and submissive.....and really has her **** together so to speak. Always wants to see me and frequently talks about the future.

But for some reason I want to dump her and look for other chicks.

Perhaps I'm just not a one girl type of guy.
Your suffering from what is called "the grass is greener" syndrome.

After having an actual quality babe like you have, competing with your friends for bragging rights of ho3s that guys are passing around and running thru is not really going to make you feel as good. Well maybe if you are a drunk or something, but once you come out of your stupor you will feel like an idiot for messing it up with one of the only ladies who would give you 100%.

Maybe you could open the relation and allow her and even insist that she allows other men to date and penetrate her and you do your thing.
 

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Take a couple side chicks and see if they keep your interest
 

stevo

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Haha there's nothing out here man.

You can let her go and come join the rest of the crowd who are trying to find a good girl while another dude snatches your chic, wifes her up and put a kid in her.

There is nothing out here man.
 

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I agree with Stevo. Be careful that you fully understand what is motivating you. If it's ego, you need to recognize it. If it's "grass is greener", that is almost always an illusion. If you identify very real incompatibilities (even if that is chemistry) then that's a different story.

The pickins' are woefully slim out here, and your decision is irrevocable so I would be slow to act until you're clear.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I have not been there yet, but if you want to dump, please do it right now and just continue with your life - i.e. seeing other chicks and building a life. :) Yes, it is going to be difficult and hurt, but you should also realize that you guys were NEVER meant to be together based on number of reasons, otherwise you would definitely not be talking about DUMPING her.

I say MOVE ON Don Juan ... there are tons and tons of HOT chicks waiting for you :)
 

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OP- Sounds like you just want to be 'The Big Man' as we say in the UK.

Grow up. Harsh but true.
 
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