dumped for the stupidest reason

[redbullfbu]

ok so i was goin out with this chick for about a week and it was goin good. then this other chick that likes me made up a rumor saying i was gonna get my girlfriend drunk then fk her (shes a virgin) so all because of this, she brakes up with me and every single one of her friends have practically confronted me....how should i deal with this? i told her it wasnt true because its not but she wont believe me so i decided to let it go cuz its 1 chick and i dont really care cuz i probably would of ended up doin that but im sick of of all her friends confronting me and everyone else asking about it. i dont know if lettin it go that easy is also the best thing to do because shes in almost all of my classes and she sits near me in all of those classes and i ****in hate havin to deal with her. any suggestions?

 

[Kidd]

It was a misunderstanding.

Destroy the rumor, fix the misunderstanding, and go get your chick back.

 

[redbullfbu]

its not as easy as you put it. she doesnt want to talk to me about it. she won't believe me, she said she would rather trust her best friends then me then i told her we shouldnt of been together in the first place and that was it. it also sucks because practically all of her friends are the popular chicks so basically i have no game to play now.

 

[Damian]

Don't try to NEGOTIATE the validity of the rumor. STRIKE IT DOWN. If somebody talks about it, you have to set it in stone and keep your stand.

-"That is a complete and utter lie."

Don't try to give them reasons, because then it just seems as if you're trying to weasel your way out. Be confident and adamant in your statements. Make them short, strong, and concise. Let them know the truth, and leave the rest up to them.

"And if you still think that way, then you can go on living a lie."

It's important that you don't show weakness of any sort. You know the truth and there's no way around it.

"I know the truth, YOU know truth, and if you'd let some stupid rumor get between us, then apparently you just can't take a relationship seriously."

Personally, i'd forget about that girl. If she's shallow enough to just drop you at the slightest alarm, then she's not a girl that would genuinely love you. I'd say kill the rumor and move on. If you want a little revenge, wait til the rumor dies down and you finally have rapport with her friends, then say it was her fault to begin with. Just for kicks.

-Damian

 

[toddC]

Originally posted by Damian


"I know the truth, YOU know truth, and if you'd let some stupid rumor get between us, then apparently you just can't take a relationship seriously."

-Damian

This should work to get her back and if it doesn't she is just one stubborn biatch

 

[Taviii]

Humiliate her!!!

And make sure alot of people see it DD

That ***** doesnt deserve you man! If she believes a fuking rumour when you tell her that it isnt true then you dont have any respect from her.

N E X T ! !

 

[MightyMate]

LOL

 

[ICaughtFire]

u noe if u had a good reputation the rumor wouldnt have changed what ppl think of u in the first place, in the long term build a solid repectable reputation first

 

[Distant Light]

Originally posted by dementia


"You can believe what you want. I thought u knew me better but you dont obviously. If you wana listen to rumours so be it. I aint gona prove myself to you. I know im not like that"

I'd go with that as i have never experienced that and wouldnt know what to do. This is one of the main reasons i hating getting girls in my school cause all the other girls do dumb sh!t. One minute you meet a girl then you start kissing her you fuvk her. Next week all the other girls "wow she is a ***** she just had sex with her bf." (hate bitvhes that do this but its typical immature sh!t) I think its because there not getting no divk that they act like that. But i don't have any solution to such a thing besides what the guy suggested.

Keep us updated on what happens

 

[cablecow15]

they probably look like this:cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

 

[DJ4Real]

The less you care....and start looking at other women, the more she'll think about her decesion against you.

 

[kev me723]

She is being COMPLETELY rediculous to believe that. If she can't even trust you over some stupid rumor made by a girl that WANTS YOU, then she obviously needs to get her head straight.

She doesn't know that now obviously, so you should really point those things out to her. She can believe the bullshi*t or believe you and the truth. Either she's with you or she's not, those are her choices.