"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So here's the deal. I meet this girl on the bus (while sitting), get her number, etc. We end up going out. Went out, had fun, and even made some arrangements a few days later to get together again.

So, I call her up and leave a message to see what her schedule looks like. Then, I get a message from her claiming that her schedule is so tied up, that it just can't work out, blah, blah, blah. Obviously her previously high IL (or my false perception of it) had dwindled down fast.

I call her back and leave a message with a general "whatever" tone.

Anyway, I'm still confused why this girl suddenly turned on me when things seemed to be going good.

Any opinions? Thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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How in the fukk is anybody on this message board supposed to know?? These posts baffle me...

Apparently she just didn't like you. It's rocket science.
 
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It was just an unusual case because she definately seemed interested (and like I said we even made plans).

Then she just turns.
 
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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
It was just an unusual case because she definately seemed interested (and like I said we even made plans).

Then she just turns.
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Women are known for that. One minute theyre a lovely kind creature, the next minute she can be the nastiest bytch in the world.

it's called pulling a 360 my friend.

you have to give more info than that, with what you provided. we're not psychics.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
Women are known for that. One minute theyre a lovely kind creature, the next minute she can be the nastiest bytch in the world.

it's called pulling a 360 my friend.

you have to give more info than that, with what you provided. we're not psychics.
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Actually, it's called pulling a 180 but your point remains valid.
 
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come on girls fake interest because they want to test their seduction powers, dont you know what attention *****s are?
 
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Originally posted by Juan_Man
Actually, it's called pulling a 180 but your point remains valid.
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