"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SnowBlind77

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my girlfriend broke up with me....i know im soundy whiny and w/e but its really been pissing me off so yea. my girlfriend told me she didnt have time for me and that she doesnt want a relationship right now. 5 days later (the first chance she gets) shes with her ex boyfriend, the biggest AFC little p*ssy ever, the guy she left for me in the first place. She left me for him and it honestly has killed my self confidence, not only that but shes lied to me about absolutely everything since then but still "cares about me" and wants to be friends. I cant handle seeing them together in the hallways. it kills me to think that that little f*cker got the best of me. I dont know what to do my confidence is gone.....should i try being friends with her eventually....or shoudl i just ignore her and gte her out of my life, cuz recently all she has been for me is a heartache, a really big one. we were together for over a year and i was in love with her....but the fact that she left me for someone else after what she told me wont leave my head. give me some advice please!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shes a *****. If she went to him she obviously couldnt handle your personality. Dont let it get to you; maybe you changed and shes not comfortable with the "new" you. Youve been here long enough, dont sweat it. She wont come back, until you forget about her. Move on, play the field, and youll be fine.
 
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yea thanks man. I have changed ALOT since then, and youre right about it all. I can do better than that anyways. Why should i kep someone in my life whos done so bad to me right?i think she only wants to be with that kid cuz he spoils her rotten and does w/e she wants, and he just makes her feel powerful and good about herself....so eff her. ive already7 got my eye on another one anyways.....thanks dude
 
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