"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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OddManOut85

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ok.a few weeks ago,i took some adderall to help me focus for a test.now,i was late and didnt take the test.but when i took the stuff,it gave me this feeling of a boost of confidence.like i could do anything.like i was prepared and ready to go.i felt happy.stuff that normally bothers me didnt.now,i havent taken it since.but i want too.like should i? is it bad too? advice from experience? etc?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jimbo2k

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I was given some pain killers for a back injury that I recently suffered. Like you, taking those pain killers kinda got me high - to the point of complete confidence etc...

I considered taking them before times when I thought being ultra confident would pay off. It probly would have, but I decided against it. Do you really want to rely on drugs to make you the "confident" person you want to be? Do you want to be dependent on this drug ? I hope the answer is no.
 

KillaCam

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Jimbo hit the nail right there.

Don't rely on drugs to change who you are and what you can do. Motivate yourself to be a better person, a drug free confident alpha male!

Recreational drugs accepted ;)
 

OddManOut85

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no.i dont want to rely on them for that.but would it hurt to do it occasionaly/recreationally to at least help a little?
 

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but would it hurt to do it occasionaly/recreationally to at least help a little?
Because that's the first step to addiction. If you're philosophy is "I swear I'll just use it this one time so I can talk to this one chick and that will be it" then that is foolish. Because you will like the results, and you will do it again. Before you know it, you will have to use it as a social crutch.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Road Demon

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Are ADHD? If so Adderall will help you focus. If you are not diagonsised with ADHD, please don't take Adderall.

Lets not be self medicating ourselves. Adderall is not some antibiotic that you should just pop when you feel like it. Adderall is a potent mix of different ampetamines and is a "controlled pharmaceutial."

If you need help to make yourself more alert then use caffeine in either coffee or 100 mg caffeine No-Doz pills. Get on a normal sleep schedule. Use caffeine when you need to study and focus for exams. That's as far as I would suggest.
 
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