"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dream Interpretation

SinJester

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This is all crap. Dreams are random. One theory I heard that scientist came up with is that dreams are a survival theatre that help assist with skills in order to surive. While our ancestors were always dreaming about getting chased by sabertooth tigers our dreams become confused due to modern society. This would explain nightmares and dreams about life threatening situations but perhaps not dreams with just random weird events. Also people are shown to improve in their ability at new tasks afetr a sleep or nap.

They came to the conclusion by allowing mice to sleep but not reach the stage of sleep where dreaming occurs (using a simple and clever method that i wont go into explaining). These mice didn't act normally in dangerous situations, such as staying in the open in the field rather than running for cover. They gave the mice some sort of drug which would have counteracted any sleep deprivation but they still acted the same and they concluded that it was the lack of dreaming that caused this unusual behavior. Wish I could find the article.

Do mice worry about what their dreams mean? I don't think so.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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