"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Drama in a relationship: worth it?

Victory Unlimited

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Abcd z,


The best way to make yourself TRUTHFULLY answer the question of whether or not the drama-level in your relationship is TOO high is to FORCE yourself to look at it objectively.

The way you do this is by imagining that it's a friend, a son, a relative, or ANYONE else in your life that's standing in your shoes RIGHT NOW-------going through what you're going through on a daily basis.

Then, think to yourself, "What would you advise THEM to do in YOUR situation?"

Whatever answer that IMMEDIATELY comes to you WITHOUT you having to think about it first "is" the SAME advice that you should follow yourself, soldier!



Much PEACE and RESPECT to you.

V.U.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Victory: interesting analysis, but once again you didn't actually answer any of the questions I posted in the original post.
 
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