Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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drama... how do you avoid it?

xomel

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I just wanna go to whatever steps are nessessary to rid my life of girl-drama but at the same time not be thier little *****.

Thanks -
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Vincent

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crawl into a hole till you leave highschool.
 

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In my opinion what you have to do when she gives you drama is be as funny as possible. Don't take anything serious. If she tells you "You are never serious" or some shyt like that just answer "nope" and :D . She will probably just smile.
I'm not sure what you mean by drama but you get the gist of what Im saying. Ya know whata mean.
 

Black Casanova

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Could you ask a more general question?

Ask a general question, get a general answer.

Just be a man. If you've read the Bible, then you already know what's supposed to be going on in the life of a "Good Guy"AKA a Man.

dont second guess yourself, follow your gut, etc...
 

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Avoid people who are constantly complaining or being way too dramatic. You don't need that bringing you down.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Heizen

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I always like to say this, it gets drama/gossip spreading girls a hard time. If they ask you about someone IE: DO you like them, that BS, say:

My actions speak louder then my words, what do YOU think?

Then refuse (In a CF way) to answer their questions.

Its fun to watch gossip girls squirm around when they cant get a straight answer :D
 

UltimateScoundrel

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There is no such thing as highschool drama. THis girl likes him, but he likes her, i like her too....blah blah blah who the fvck cares?

You want to eliminate drama? Done. There's no such thing.
 
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