"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wow what fun!

Just go ghost and have fun with it when they do hook up with you again.

This is damned rare. You're one lucky mofo!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Korrupt said:
So I met this girl from Tinder several months ago. We ended up meeting up for "wine and netflix," had awesome sex, and became friends with benefits. After a little while I felt that I needed a short break and we didn't talk for about a month. When I hit her up again she tells me she has a boyfriend/is dating someone and can't see me. A couple days later she says she has a girlfriend who, like me, is just looking for FWB and is interested in hanging out with me. I see some pics and am also interested because the girl is f*cking beautiful.
Bro as soon as agree to above, you can't complain about anything. She said her girlfriend is looking for FWB, nothing more. It also could have been a test to see what type of person you are and you didn't pass.

So a few days later she (original girl with a BF) hits me up asking if I saw the walking dead finale, but it quickly gets sexual and, to make a long story short, we end up hanging out and f*cking that same night. I honestly didn't want to be "that guy" (who f*cks a girl with a boyfriend), but the sexual chemistry and attraction is truly amazing. Anyways, I end up meeting the other girl (the friend) a couple days later. We hang out, f*ck, and all is good. No--GREAT. Even hit her up the next morning and we schedule something for tomorrow.
Bro, again, she said she has a girlfriend who wants to be FWB. You said NO PROBLEM. Now she knows she can F you No problem. You have also have look at it from her point of view, she DOESN'T care about you being that guy.

At the same time, I'm also talking to the original girl and we set up something for tonight (lol why am I typing this, huh?). So we're texting over the weekend and she's going back and forth--"I want to hang out, I don't want to hang out, etc." So tonight comes, she's still f*cking teasing me and acting like she wants to hang out, then when I leave the gym I have a text that says "I don't think I'm coming over tonight " Talk to her on the phone for a bit and she, understandably so, doesn't want to lie to her friend (the one I had sex with) and cheat on her BF again (again... Lol). Then what happens? Her friend texts me saying she can't hang out tomorrow because she has an exam tomorrow, which I actually believed until I thought... "Wait... We weren't going to chill till 8-10pm. Wouldn't her class and exam be over?" I just told her it was cool and "maybe another time." No text back. Got a snapchat shortly thereafter with both of them in the pic saying "your girls studying." Real f*cking cute.

Just venting. Women continually disappoint me.
I don't bro, you are getting laid by two girls who know each other and help each other get laid by you, where one has a boyfriend, doesn't sound like a great ending. Sounds like a trap...:wave:
 
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