"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Double Standards. Expectations-These Are Chubby/Fat Gir

joe45

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ever dated or went out with a girl who had something i would call a double standard.
they expect and made indirect comments about myself not owning and having a car and access to a car, when ur a college student who has to
pay his own school fees. owning a car in Vancouver is expensive if your not making a lot
of money in your p/t 10/hr dead end job.
funny thing is the girl(nikki) didn;t even have a car, access to a car or even a drivers
licnese. at least i had my drivers license. hey why don't you get a car.

another girl i met in college before, was similar to the car incident,but didn't make as much a deal about it.
she asked me if i was going to pusue a degree , i wasn;t sure at that time. from talking to her , i can tell she wanted a
educated 4 yr degree guy. she even said she wanted a guy with a bachelor degree. funny thing is she doesn't even have a degree, but is a drop out of a community college pracitical
nursing 8 month program .lol wow double standard. hey.
a car was neccessary too, but talking to them it had to be someting decent. a newer or close to new model car. nothing too old, who nows. i could get a
car ,but nothing special and i just don't want the added expense. i work p/t in a 10/hr job and most of the money
goes to school fees. college schooling for a degree isn't cheap. 2400 for a semester not including 600 for textbooks.

i have female friends who had car , nothing nice -civic, accords and have dated guys who had no cars and also had
lower educaiton than them. they hhave a 4 yr univ degree. one of them drove me home from work , and the other i met
off the net. they are decent looking and not fat. too bad they aren't interested though.


funny thing is these 2 girls weren't hotties(thicker side, obese and chubbyand fat girls)
either, probably a 3.5,4 out of 10 according to my friends, my buddy met angela said a -4 lol . why i ask em out.
lol easier to get their numbers, and you now they going say oh YESS when u ask em out.funny these thicker
girls have high expectations, but aren't really like moedels.

you can't even tell b/c both of these girl, were like plain janes, hooodies, no make up, simple dressed and wearing
nothing fancy. u think they won't be like that, but they are. i guess it says to tell, you can't tell by looking.
i guess i was desperato at that time. lol.

i don't care what ppl here say. we are in the 21 st century and its all equal opportunity.girls should have univ degrees now, should have their own car. even if i had a car, i not going be driving you aorund all the time. not like some guys who are doormats do. i could get a car with my money, its just that i chose not to. i got better things to spend my $ on.

had any guys had this problem before, girls who lacked something, but expected the guy to have it.
 

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Yes, women demand more from men than they offer men. It's rare that you see a guy who is less attractive and less well off economically then the girls he attracts.
 

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Last monday, a fatty, does this rhino charge up to me, and she sounds pissed off "Why dont you ever talk to me? Is it because I'm chubby" (understatement btw)
I say "I dont fukking know you, why the fvck would I talk to you?"
HBmoo- "Well, I've seen you at the bar a bunch of times"
me- "So? Theres lots of people I see all the time, but dont talk to. Why the fvck are you so special? Fine. My names woods, nice to meet you"
"I'm HB moo, nice to meet you, and I just think you're hot, is all"
"Allright, whatever, I know your name now, and i'll say hi when i see you"
So I hoped that would get her off my back (it hurt bad enough as it was)

Later, she tries talking to me, and I'm politely blowing her off. Then...
"What do I have to do to hit on you? Whats your problem"
Me-dumbfounded "uhhh, ummm, I'm flattered and all, but...no."
HBmoo "let me guess, you only date skinny chicks"
me- "well....yeah"
HBmoo "blahblahblha, superficial,blahblah, more to love,blahblah, dyck ,blahblah"
me "You're 'trying' to hit on me cuz I'm hot. part of that is because I'm not fat. fvck off"

Double Standards.
 

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woods said:
Later, she tries talking to me, and I'm politely blowing her off. Then...
"What do I have to do to hit on you? Whats your problem"
Suck my c0ck! Then when she's done, tell her to get on her way.
 

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