"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't want LTR,just to have sex with her?

Amateur_FOR_NOW

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I've been on one date with her and she didn't really impress me with her looks. We had an average time on the date and I ended it. I didn't even try to kiss her.

Anyway,I don't want to even try LTR with her, but just to **** her, HOW DO I TELL HER OR SHOW HER THAT??? she is 18

The thing is that she is not good looking while I am above average good looking(everybody tells me that)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you got to show her some sexual interest. how about that? but you didnt even try to kiss her, so she either thinks youre not interested in her or that youre a *****.
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
"Location: Heaven hopefully!"

You are not going to heaven, you are going to hell, sorry for the bad news.
ROFL...

Don't kid yourself, we are all going to hell. Why is he so special?!

OP: Hmmmm, is there a need to tell her that? I don't see there is. To much blahblah is never good. Just convey what you want, see if she gives it, if she does great. No promises were made, nothing was sworn, you didn't cut off your pinky as an oath in blood etc. Basically no strings...

If she starts poking you about it, asking for exclusive etc just say *NO*, i like you, but i'm not ready to commit. No telling how she will react. She may think nothing of it, she may attempt to remove your balls from your sack right there and then. You just have to see and handle it as it comes your way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Amateur_FOR_NOW

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Originally posted by undesputable
you got to show her some sexual interest. how about that? but you didnt even try to kiss her, so she either thinks youre not interested in her or that youre a *****.
So do you think that inviting her to a club or something where the atmosphere is more relaxed so I can show her that sexual interest is a good idea?
 

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show some sexual interest. start f**king her. when she brings up the LTR possibilities tell her your not looking for one. simple as that
 

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Originally posted by duttylove
show some sexual interest. start f**king her. when she brings up the LTR possibilities tell her your not looking for one. simple as that
Wait, where should I go on the second date(assuming that I will kiss her on the second date)?I don't want to go to some bar, recommend me something good please?
 
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