"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ive been hitting on this girl recently who clearly likes me but, so does her friend. however, i dont feel the same way to her friend. i really wanna concentrate on hitting on the girl i want while at the same time not pissing off her friend, as shes my friend too. what can i do? also, my mate also has his eyes on her and she seems to like him as well and its seriously hurting my game since hes always with me! what can i do!?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First off, your mate's business is not your own business. Maybe you guys should arrange a double date.

Sorry, your post isn't really descriptive. Pick the one you like and game her.
 

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the prob is, i dont feel anything for the other chick (her friend, the one i dont wanna piss off) and niether does my mate. my mate has no real consideration for her but i dont want her feeling neglected cuz shes still my mate while if my mates chatting up the girl we both like i dont wanna jump in as well cuz it looks like were both desperate and shell lose intrest in both of us. however, i cant help but feel if im talking to the girl i dont like, that im just letting my mate walk all over me and increase his chances with the girl i like while lowering mine. what can i do?

sorry if this is confusing
 
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