"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't Treat All Women The Same

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DJinTraining06 said:
Screw all of this, how be we just be men, strive to improve ourselves all the time, have balls, pride, ambition, and be well grounded guys nice guys but wont take crap from anybody. Chicks will dig us. Am i right? Screw all of these games, i dont wanna live my life playig games, and using tactics.
Pretty much.

Tricks and tactics always end up funneling you into the same traps in life.

In fact, it's the assumption that you NEED tricks and tactics and games that screws everything up. The assumption that you NEED to hook up with a certain woman, that you NEED to follow her rules of engagement that's the source of all of our problems with women.

Women are ALL THE SAME. They are ALL sluts, they are ALL flakes, they are ALL cheaters, they are ALL attention *****s and drama queens. You CANNOT generate attraction by appealing to a woman's sense of nobility or social conditioning. You CANNOT generate attraction by trying to FIGHT a woman's natural mechanisms.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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