Thundercat
Don Juan
One of my biggest sticking points is that I'll get to a certain point in a sarge, and COMPLETELY stall out. We're talking total brain fart here, folks. The engineer has totally left the train station, and I flounder looking for something to say. At this point, the girl will usually sense the hesitation and I'll get blown out of set. In fact, we have a term for this known as "stalling out."
I was discussing this phenomenon with a friend of mine who's an extremely talented PUA known as his internet handle "Merovingian," and he told me that he has special routines he uses for those situations wich he calls "Anti-Stall Tactics," (or *AST*, if you wanna acronym it, lol). Anyway, these are lines he uses when he can't think of where to take the interaction, and I gotta tell you man, this crap is $$$$$MONEY$$$$!
Basically, the concept behind an Anti-Stall Tactic is that you shift the burden of the conversation to your target by getting her to qualify to you and then pulling back without validating her. An example of two Anti-Stall Tactics Merovingian shared with me are:
"Oh, you're a high maintenence girl."
and
"You're such a party girl. I'm through with party girls."
And then turn your head away. Basically, at this point, the girl will start explaining to you why she isn't high maintenence or she isn't a party girl, to try to get you to see that as being the case. But you just pull back and say stuff like "Sure." or "Okay, whatever you say." Basically, you keep letting her try to engage YOU. And before you know it, she's the one who's trying to keep the conversation going.
This, of course, is only effective if you've already HOOKED the girl. If there's no attraction there, or the girl isn't into you, this technique won't work, because there's no motivation as to why she would want to re-engage you.
Good stuff, huh? I know I'm gonna start working this stuff into my seduction vocabulary. =)
Thundercat
Thundercat's Seduction Lair
I was discussing this phenomenon with a friend of mine who's an extremely talented PUA known as his internet handle "Merovingian," and he told me that he has special routines he uses for those situations wich he calls "Anti-Stall Tactics," (or *AST*, if you wanna acronym it, lol). Anyway, these are lines he uses when he can't think of where to take the interaction, and I gotta tell you man, this crap is $$$$$MONEY$$$$!
Basically, the concept behind an Anti-Stall Tactic is that you shift the burden of the conversation to your target by getting her to qualify to you and then pulling back without validating her. An example of two Anti-Stall Tactics Merovingian shared with me are:
"Oh, you're a high maintenence girl."
and
"You're such a party girl. I'm through with party girls."
And then turn your head away. Basically, at this point, the girl will start explaining to you why she isn't high maintenence or she isn't a party girl, to try to get you to see that as being the case. But you just pull back and say stuff like "Sure." or "Okay, whatever you say." Basically, you keep letting her try to engage YOU. And before you know it, she's the one who's trying to keep the conversation going.
This, of course, is only effective if you've already HOOKED the girl. If there's no attraction there, or the girl isn't into you, this technique won't work, because there's no motivation as to why she would want to re-engage you.
Good stuff, huh? I know I'm gonna start working this stuff into my seduction vocabulary. =)
Thundercat
Thundercat's Seduction Lair