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Dont really know what to do .

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Hey guys , i met this girl in a club this weekend and i don't know what to do .

At the club i was checking some girls and there were some sexy girls dancing quite close to me .
I usually don't give those girls any attention since they aren't my type .
But there was this one girl(wich was atleast a 9/10) i started looking her in the eyes while she was dancing . We started to have more and more eye contact , started to smile and eventually we were both smiling constantly at each other .
Then 2 guys were hitting on her so i just moved along and partied to the music .
A little later the 2 guys were gone and she came to me and asked me how tall i was , since i'm not a tall guy and she was shorter than me and she also introduced herself .

She headed back to her friends and 5 minutes later she tapped on my shoulder and said she was leaving and then she left .
I was surprised and since i was a bit drunk i did the stupidest thing cuz it could have been the last time i saw this girl .
I went after her and asked if she wanted to do something sometime , and she said to add her on facebook .
Last night i added her and had a short chat and she said she thought it was cute that i asked her out , and she also asked me if i like shorter girls .

The thing i cant figure out is if she's just messing with my head or she likes me .

Can you guys give me any advice ?

cheers !
 

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Damn dude sounds like you need to find some inner self confidence and recognize that women might actually find you attractive...she approached you and basically hit on you twice. Maybe she thought it was cute that you were a little shy so she started to game you...with one of my wings he likes to tell girls that I'm shy and they start gaming me to soon find out that I'm actually far from shy...anyway you should try to set a firm date with her...hopefully you have a car and can name a time and place to pick her up and do something...get her number and CALL her...the Facebook message thing will quickly get played out and you will seem desperate and boring rather than cute and shy...get that number and make a move...and go out next time with the belief in your mind that girls will respond to you if you have the confidence to approach...also don't use the excuse that "sexy club girls are not your type"
 

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thx for the replies guys ! Ill try to take her out for a date .

greetz
 
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