"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't know where to meet women...

ChrizZ

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It's driving me insane. I haven't gotten any action in a while.

I go to an all guys school. The house parties here are sh!t. There are like 3 b!tchy girls and 20 guys.

I'm not 21 yet and there are no decent 18+ clubs around.

The mall only has little high school girls or girls walking around with their boyfriends.

All I'm doing at the moment is working hard on my career, but having no sex is driving me insane.

Any ideas?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Irs88

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town fairs, school/community clubs, grocery store, bookstore, community/school sport programs/matches, etc.
 

MAN_OF_TOMMOROW

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You can only meet WOMEN on weekends usually, ie (clubs, bars, social events), because they're too busy uploading pics on Facebook or on social networking sites during the week. How can you meet women when they're entirely homebound in solitary confinement? Thats why its funny to me,when girls say they're here and there doing uplifiting things outdoors, but updating there FACEBOOK WALL 24/ 7 indoors and homebound.

Women are LIARS. They effortlessly portay to be doing what THEY DESIRE or WISH they could be doing more than MEN do and even more. . . 9timesoutter10 you can meet as much women via social networking sites with some form of FEEDBACK than outdoor socialising.

AFTER DARK,its a ratio of 5 to 1 men for women, it's HORSE-S H I T.
 

backbreaker

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Speaking from total experience, when I was younger and was not where i am not espically physically, i could not find women. all the clubs were not good enough, all of the bars did not have women enough...

dude.. women are everywhere. if you are having problem finding women the probably is usually you. When you are worthy of women's attention, when women see something they like they come out of the woodworks.

I haven't been to a club, well.. i take that back.. i havent' been to a club alone in 3 years and i'm engaged and i've been approached more now and i have a damn ring on my finger. At chilil's by the bartender, buyign clothes at the mall, at mcdonalds, at the pet store, at barnes and noble, at the grocery store.

even last week, I went to star bucks and there was a quite cute girl, probably abour 22ish, behind the counter and she was just starring at me, and walking by me dying for me to say something to her or start a conversation.. they are everywhere. lol, my masseuse asked me out for drinks a bout a month ago (she's ass licking hot by the way.. easily an 8.5.. petite, about 5'5, nice curves). Been using her for a year and I never talk about anything personal and I let it slip that I was going to go out for some drinks and she got excited and asked would I mind if she wanted to come along.

it's easiser to blame everyone else and hard to look at our selves. If women are not making it known that they want you, you might not currently be bringing enough to the table.

Attraction is not something that is just cut on when you walk in a club. it's not like a women walks in barnes and noble and sees you and thinks nothing of you but then sees you later on at the club and is open to talking to you.

when you are on, you are always on, no matter where it is.

I dont' expect women to approach me, but I know that when I'm not being looked at or appraoched or whatever the case may be something is worng with me,r ather it be my attitude or my dress or my weight or whatever.

I live right outside Los Angeles (Monrovia) now and I assure you that the women here are just as girly as the women back in my home town (little rock).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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