"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't know what to think about her

r0cky

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I met this HB 8.5 on myspace, known her for a month or less. She lives about 1 hr from me, and we have a great connection, for example we can talk for hours about anything, and I can say that I like her personality very much. She calls me almost everyday, and tells me she likes me, etc .

But theres something fishy about her, and its starting to annoy me. I'm not the most hotest guy you've ever seen, but I'm easy on the eyes. However this girl thinks im the hottest guy. And she reminds me of it all the time! Ever since the moment we met she would compliment me on my looks. Calling me cute, sexy, handsome.... And she seems to be really into me, because in almost every convo she mentions how much she likes me. But im starting to think she likes my looks more than she likes me. I know this is pretty usual for young girls, but shes 20 yrs old! I don't know lately I've been thinking she might be an A.W. that only compliments me to get more attention from me. But after doing some research she does not have any of the symptoms.

My point is that I dont know how real shes being with me. I havent asked her, because I know what her answer is going to be. I was hoping some of you here have had experience with this type of personality.
This girl is not carrying emotional baggage btw. She pretty sane in my book, and she's actually very nice and down to earth. Oh yeah and she's also very sexual. As in she flashed me her tits on the second time we talked online, and she initates the sexual talk all the time. But like i said, shes pretty down to earth so doesnt appear like shes the s1utty type.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Talk about reading too much into things. She is complimenting you and you seem uneasy and overwhelmed at being given compliments; it is you with the issue not her. And I'd hate to break it to you, you met on myspace, all she has to judge you is on image, as I assume you haven't met and haven't spent anytime time together. Therefore how can she judge you on anything else?
 

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r0cky said:
As in she flashed me her tits on the second time we talked online, and she initates the sexual talk all the time. But like i said, shes pretty down to earth so doesnt appear like shes the s1utty type.
Ask her to flash her ass next time....

Stop chatting online, ask her to meet you somewhere and you could probably hit that the very same night. If she is just an AW then she will refuse or make up some exucse, otherwise why flash your t1ts at someone you aren't even interested....

Or you can keep talking to her on myspace and jerk off while she gets bored and move onto some other dude.
 

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...are you serious? Why are you over analyzing this chick? Shes young, horny, on myspace and just wants to ride you like a pony. As mentioned above ask her out and finish the job. And dont doom yourself into being in a relationship with this type of chick, pump her and add her to your bullpen for later on.
 

r0cky

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DJDamage said:
Ask her to flash her ass next time....

Stop chatting online, ask her to meet you somewhere and you could probably hit that the very same night. If she is just an AW then she will refuse or make up some exucse, otherwise why flash your t1ts at someone you aren't even interested....

Or you can keep talking to her on myspace and jerk off while she gets bored and move onto some other dude.
She actually puts on a strip show for me whenever i ask.
We have met twice in person but for no more than a couple hours. i was not able to take it further than a kiss because of logistics.
and you're right about flashing someone shes not interested in.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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