"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't date Russian chicks

Zero Hero

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They are the worst...I just got back from a date with this Russian chick I met online and it was the worst date ever. First of all, I could barely understand her accent. She took about 3 calls from her sister during the date. She was playing with her ****ing food! The girl had wanted to go to Hooter's, but I thought that was weird and we ended up at freaking Denny's. The girl was a total nutcase. Then she tells me her record is 3 one night stands in 2 days. Yeah so anyways I was thinking she was telling me that **** til I paid. She was saying we were gonna go pick up her sister and have a threesome. I figured I'd hit it, but whatever I didn't get any. Cheap hos hoing for $20 Denny's dates these days....oh yeah the reason I am posting this is cause the other Russian chick I went out with in the past was almost the exact same way although she was a bit nicer, but I blew $60 on her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WhitePimp

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Sounds like the Russians know how to work a dude!
 

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Oh the power of the generalisation.

She schooled you.

A decent example of the internet leading you into the unknown.
 

Zero Hero

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Oh boo hoo I got schooled for $20....if a chick is mentioning a 3some, you can take those odds.
 

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I didn't say anything about the money :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zero Hero

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I don't know what you're saying then, but I still like online dating.....I had a great date last night, just gotta deal with this awful ones.
 

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im russian and ive had several russian girlfriends before.........they fvck good, but yes, they SUCK as people - americanized russian girls are worse

TAKE THIS COMING FROM A RUSSIAN LOL
 

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Haha, this is funny.

This is coming from a russian. I was born and raised.
1. You are bitter.
2. I agree, i wouldn't date a russian chick based on my experience. I have and they are stuck up and princess like. fvck them and leave them
3. Not all of them are bad. Just the majority. This is from my experience.

Plus this shouldn't even be under tips section.
 

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Conrats...you probably have aids.
 

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I'm pretty much a Russian girl (well, Ukrainian really, but it's all former USSR and Russian is my first language). Yeah, Russian girls are... different. I stay far, far away from the people from the former USSR, both guys and girls.

Some Russian girls are totally cool. But some are gold-diggers, or have those really old-fashioned values about male-female relationships, or want everything to be sickeningly romantic. From what I've seen the cool girls are the smarter ones, the ones in difficult programs in college. The bad ones are the dumber ones (same as with every other culture).

To make up for ****ting on Russian girls I must say that Russian guys are not too great either.

skip2mylou781, what's bad about Americanized Russian girls?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DanelMadr

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black_cat said:
I'm pretty much a Russian girl (well, Ukrainian really, but it's all former USSR and Russian is my first language). Yeah, Russian girls are... different. I stay far, far away from the people from the former USSR, both guys and girls.

Some Russian girls are totally cool. But some are gold-diggers, or have those really old-fashioned values about male-female relationships, or want everything to be sickeningly romantic. From what I've seen the cool girls are the smarter ones, the ones in difficult programs in college. The bad ones are the dumber ones (same as with every other culture).

To make up for ****ting on Russian girls I must say that Russian guys are not too great either.

skip2mylou781, what's bad about Americanized Russian girls?
Hi, I agree with you. I met a few Ukrainian girls e.g. former piano play teacher, butcher now :/...really cool girls and pretty too. Russians are weird. I think lot of people from former sov-bloc have problems....its like difference between city and village. They are trying too hard....they act like performers on MTV etc :))) I am from Czech rep.
 

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black_cat said:
I'm pretty much a Russian girl (well, Ukrainian really, but it's all former USSR and Russian is my first language). Yeah, Russian girls are... different. I stay far, far away from the people from the former USSR, both guys and girls.

Some Russian girls are totally cool. But some are gold-diggers, or have those really old-fashioned values about male-female relationships, or want everything to be sickeningly romantic. From what I've seen the cool girls are the smarter ones, the ones in difficult programs in college. The bad ones are the dumber ones (same as with every other culture).

To make up for ****ting on Russian girls I must say that Russian guys are not too great either.

skip2mylou781, what's bad about Americanized Russian girls?

russian guys CAN be great....as long as they listen to alot of ruki vverh and 140 udarov v minutu (that kinda romantic techno shyt has a very deep influence, it was responsible for me being a "fall in love really quick" kinda guy for several years)
 

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Zero Hero said:
Oh boo hoo I got schooled for $20....if a chick is mentioning a 3some, you can take those odds.

oh for ****s sake...


thats where she got you, right there. she says threesome, you whip out your wallet and agree to pay. she acted, you reacted.

the second she said it, and she realized you wanted it, it was over. you should have had the attitude of "maybe. if your sister is cute", or "is incest a big thing in your family?"

Stop thinkin with your **** and use your head. Only by being indifferent do you stand a chance
 

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I'm a russian guy, and I'm the coolest motherfvcker you can ever meet. :D ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dude, go get yourself some grub at taco bell and then tell me about mexico. about the same as equating dating an ethnic russian in america to real russian girls.
 

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Haha, u guys, russian girls are funny... i dated one when I was over in Montreal the week... really hot, and trust me, they know how to please a guy :p.. Oh and also, from the ones i met in Croatia a couple of years back they are also super, super jealous... which makes them kinda easy if u play it right ;-)
 
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