"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don't be Overwhelmed by all the Dating Advice

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When I first discovered articles to help me with women a few years ago, I felt like Neo in the Matrix. Everything I knew was wrong, and here were guys giving out their secrets on how to be successful. However the more I read, the more confused I was.

There was so much material, and many of them conflicted with each other. The idea of being successful with women is that there many ways towards the path of success. Should you be persistent with a woman, or sit back and let her chase you?

Another problem is that there are so many aspects to improving with women. Body language, increase your style, learning how to approach women, etc.

How do you eat an elephant?


…one bite at a time

That’s how you conquer a giant, one piece at a time.

The fact is that it’s very difficult to multi-task and improve various areas of your life at the same time. You need to decide on the most IMPORTANT skill that you need to improve on, then work on that and give it 100%. For instance you won’t be able to approach women if your confidence is extremely low. You should work on your confidence first, then work on approaching. After you master approaching, work on getting a phone number.

Imagine if you wanted to imprve confidence, approach, and getting numbers at the same time. It’d be very difficult because you’re not focused!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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War Against Betaism

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Swinggcat recommended this in his book Real World Seduction. If you try to improve on everything at the same time, you'll probably lose interest because the goal is so big, and you'll end up not working on it at all.

That's why I like David DeAngelo's books as a sort of starting point for those new to the truth about women. It's more general than anything, doesn't really delve deep into things, then you just expand upon other material.
 
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