"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't Be Hating Net Datin-npua Vs. Pua

COD

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ok cold approaching, sarging, field extractions (when done correctly) are great for building confidence and character. They are great practice forums to view live pickups, work on small talk skills, develop new routines, sharpen your quick banter, etc.

NET-DATING; I-pod dating, free sites, paid for sites, chat rooms, IM's, text-flirting, etc are semi-virtual until you actually meet them.

VIRTUAL SARGING TAKES A LITTLE LONGER AND IS SLOWER. If you are skilled you can line up a booty call, dateS, meeting in less than a hour.

In da filed ya gotta incorporate a systematical approach (think mystery method or a few others as an example of step by step transitions)

ONLINE: the same theory applies, you need to have a set routine that reaps success in the least amount of time.

THE SIMILARITIES ARE

1) select your target u desire

2) ice breaker/opener utilizing humor, wit, keep it short

3) approach/email sent -C & F, NEG/HIT

4) guage interest as to how to proceed.

5) Escalate:kino (live), tease text exchange(net)

6) info exchange

7) BOUNCE/ISOLATE FOR INSTANT DATE (LIVE) CALL TO SET UP DATE (NET)

8) CALL FOR FUTURE DATE.

It's just another way to meet women........both have pros & cons, no need to be hatin about net datin. I will concure that to be a true PUA master, skills are best sharpened on the fly (instant, spontanesouly, live)

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sandman6991

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Would you put Facebook/Myspace in the same category as net dating?

Also...what good opening messages do you send? I do great after they reply, but I can't seem to get many replies to my first message
 

D!ck Ramsey

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Net dating is ok. You can definitely get some quality tail with minimal effort.

But if you are looking for something more than sex, real world game is king.

Of course this is in my own humble experience
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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COD said:
...It's just another way to meet women........both have pros & cons, no need to be hatin about net datin. I will concure that to be a true PUA master, skills are best sharpened on the fly (instant, spontanesouly, live)

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The problem is that guys don't have a competent grasp on the basic sarging steps no matter the venue. They try to sarge online and give a half @ssed effort and then complain that it's a waste of time.

I'll admit that sarging online isn't as easy because you don't have the immediate response of reading a woman's body language. If you screw up with your c/f you can't easily fall back and say "just kidding" in an effort to cover up your f-up.

If you aren't dependent on having to react to each of the woman's responses and are capable of being in the drivers seat of the interactions, sarging online is a viable venue such like a club, grocery store or school. It's just another venue. And it doesn't need to take longer if you know how to qualify and escalate.
 
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