What is a Don Juan? How does he act? How does he walk, think and talk? As new generations of posters come and go, these questions get asked over and over again. I'd say that this is starting to get out of hand, but in reality, it already has a very long time ago. Let's get some things straight and put an end to this nonsense. There are no DJs and AFCs. These are just meaningless buzzwords that confuse and mislead so many of us.
They were created for a good purpose, which was to sum up behavioral patterns commonly attributed to the two distinct groups of males. Apparently, someone has forgotten that words to describe these groups ALREADY exist. Men and boys. Sit down and think about what these two words mean to you, what they really stand for. Do you see that a DJ is a strong, confident man, and an AFC is a weak, insecure boy?
Deep down, each of us knows what a man should be really like. We also understand that men of today are nothing like that. They physically resemble men, but inside, they're boys. The social conditioning of today's society is to blame. And since very few (the ones you call natural Don Juans) resist social conditioning in the first place, most of us are here to try and recondition ourselves.
And that's where problems arise with using these buzzwords. People aren't sure what they really mean and argue over it constantly. They come here ready and willing to change and accept whatever they're told as the truth. But different people have different INTREPRETATIONS of these buzzwords. As a result, many who accept their advise and change themselves, end up changing into what SOMEONE ELSE thinks they should be like.
And if you ask me, those people are no better off than they were before. At least before, they knew who they were. But who are they now? Posers? Pretenders? Listen, since each of us CLEARLY understands what separates men from boys, let's stick to that. Let's put an end to all this confusion and focus on the real goal at hand. And spend more time working on ourselves and less time poking around in the dark and wondering what it is that we want to change in the first place.
Let there be light.
They were created for a good purpose, which was to sum up behavioral patterns commonly attributed to the two distinct groups of males. Apparently, someone has forgotten that words to describe these groups ALREADY exist. Men and boys. Sit down and think about what these two words mean to you, what they really stand for. Do you see that a DJ is a strong, confident man, and an AFC is a weak, insecure boy?
Deep down, each of us knows what a man should be really like. We also understand that men of today are nothing like that. They physically resemble men, but inside, they're boys. The social conditioning of today's society is to blame. And since very few (the ones you call natural Don Juans) resist social conditioning in the first place, most of us are here to try and recondition ourselves.
And that's where problems arise with using these buzzwords. People aren't sure what they really mean and argue over it constantly. They come here ready and willing to change and accept whatever they're told as the truth. But different people have different INTREPRETATIONS of these buzzwords. As a result, many who accept their advise and change themselves, end up changing into what SOMEONE ELSE thinks they should be like.
And if you ask me, those people are no better off than they were before. At least before, they knew who they were. But who are they now? Posers? Pretenders? Listen, since each of us CLEARLY understands what separates men from boys, let's stick to that. Let's put an end to all this confusion and focus on the real goal at hand. And spend more time working on ourselves and less time poking around in the dark and wondering what it is that we want to change in the first place.
Let there be light.
