"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Went out sarging for about 5 hours today

I started off bad, the first 3 hours were just blow outs and blowouts and blowouts... i realized i was looking for reactions and wasn't getting the reactions that i wanted. Then my friend told me... "Dude, they're people too, just be authentic with them. Say what's on your mind."
I'm pretty sure i got the right message from that because afterwards i started getting much better reactions. Went on a few "mini-dates" which consisted of walking around with girls that we met, holding their hands and shopping with them, embracing them etc.
Also i learned that to build my "state" it helps to make friends in the environment. So i came out of my pick-up mode and started just being friendly to people that passed by, having quirky conversations, etc.
In the end i ended up making friends in this place we were (out of town) And some girls remembered us from before, and would come up to talk with us again while we were relaxing and taking a break from sarging. The day started off bad, but then i ended up getting into it and had an overall great time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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