SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
For my guys in relationships, this is one of the most important, if not, the most important factor in maintaining one.
Women are built to be lead, they're herd creatures. That's why social media, magazines, and reality T.V shows are their things. They read and then follow. They see and then follow, they breed and then follow.
Attention Women-haters:This is NOT an insult to women. So don't comment on this thread like " Yeah! women are a bunch of no good followers!" I'm simply stating a generic dynamic-
In a relationship, you must be the leader who makes decisions, and stands by them. You must be confident enough in yourself that you know what you want. She must be submissive to you, and not because she's a doormat, but because you demand submissiveness & respect.
THIS DOES NOT MEAN BE CONTROLLING
Many people take information in on the double S and get upset when it doesn't work. And that's because they usually take it to the extreme.
Being Dominant & being controlling are TWO entirely different things. And you don't have to be d1ck to be dominant.
Ex:
You: When we go out tonight, I know you'll be wearing that black dress that I love so much, you know what happens when you wear it right?
Her: *laughs* No, I have no clue, and what if I don't want to wear it...
You: Oh, you'll want to.
If the dynamic is right I'm almost 100% sure she'll wear that dress.
Vs.
You: Take that dress off and go put on the black one.
Her: Umm.....
You: I'm not going out if your wearing that.
*either she changes, or argument ensues*
Note: This may work for some guys, especially with really submissive chicks. But not everyones a **** like my buddy Kyle (took his exact conversation) nor as dominant, so I reccommend doing it a bit smoother.
And then you may say "Smoove, what if she doesn't listen?"
That's, cool, you're a dominant guy, not a dictator. You can't control her, nor can you make her wear the dress. But I bet you expressed what YOU want. And that's more than a lot of guys can say in a relationship.
The dress thing is also a analogy for other aspects of the relationship. If she asks what you want to eat? Tell her wtf you want to eat. If she asks, what you want to do? Tell her wtf you want to do. Don't like something? Express it. Don't feel like going with her to run errands. Tell her and stay home. In bed? Slap her ass, pull her hair. Not the aggressive type? Tell her to turn around, tell her to look at you, tell her to squeeze, tell her how YOU like it.
A dominant man makes his decisions and leads the relationship based off what He wants. A woman will follow a dominant man she respects to hell and back if she needed too.
To many men in relationships are concerned about how she feels, what she wants, what her goals are, what she didn't like, what she wants to do, what she wants you to change. What about YOU
On the road to being a HVM-
-Smoove
Women are built to be lead, they're herd creatures. That's why social media, magazines, and reality T.V shows are their things. They read and then follow. They see and then follow, they breed and then follow.
Attention Women-haters:This is NOT an insult to women. So don't comment on this thread like " Yeah! women are a bunch of no good followers!" I'm simply stating a generic dynamic-
In a relationship, you must be the leader who makes decisions, and stands by them. You must be confident enough in yourself that you know what you want. She must be submissive to you, and not because she's a doormat, but because you demand submissiveness & respect.
THIS DOES NOT MEAN BE CONTROLLING
Many people take information in on the double S and get upset when it doesn't work. And that's because they usually take it to the extreme.
Being Dominant & being controlling are TWO entirely different things. And you don't have to be d1ck to be dominant.
Ex:
You: When we go out tonight, I know you'll be wearing that black dress that I love so much, you know what happens when you wear it right?
Her: *laughs* No, I have no clue, and what if I don't want to wear it...
You: Oh, you'll want to.
If the dynamic is right I'm almost 100% sure she'll wear that dress.
Vs.
You: Take that dress off and go put on the black one.
Her: Umm.....
You: I'm not going out if your wearing that.
*either she changes, or argument ensues*
Note: This may work for some guys, especially with really submissive chicks. But not everyones a **** like my buddy Kyle (took his exact conversation) nor as dominant, so I reccommend doing it a bit smoother.
And then you may say "Smoove, what if she doesn't listen?"
That's, cool, you're a dominant guy, not a dictator. You can't control her, nor can you make her wear the dress. But I bet you expressed what YOU want. And that's more than a lot of guys can say in a relationship.
The dress thing is also a analogy for other aspects of the relationship. If she asks what you want to eat? Tell her wtf you want to eat. If she asks, what you want to do? Tell her wtf you want to do. Don't like something? Express it. Don't feel like going with her to run errands. Tell her and stay home. In bed? Slap her ass, pull her hair. Not the aggressive type? Tell her to turn around, tell her to look at you, tell her to squeeze, tell her how YOU like it.
A dominant man makes his decisions and leads the relationship based off what He wants. A woman will follow a dominant man she respects to hell and back if she needed too.
To many men in relationships are concerned about how she feels, what she wants, what her goals are, what she didn't like, what she wants to do, what she wants you to change. What about YOU
On the road to being a HVM-
-Smoove
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