"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Doing something wrong during meetup/date?

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youngmack

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It seems to be that i'm doing something wrong whenever I get a girl out. I've done a good job establishing some sort of rapport to get them to agree to come out with me and they do seem slightly interested to do so.
Problem is that most of the times after we meet and we go home, their interest levels go down and they don't seem as interested as before the outing. Is it where i'm taking them? Maybe the convo? they usually seem like they're having a good time on the dates and laughing an having good conversation but after its like they don't wanna see me again

I've had one girl blatantly say she doesn't wanna see me again and not to ask her why the next morning, even when she said she had a good night the night before.. Could it be the vibe I give off? my looks? Maybe I had bad breath and didn't know?

Any advice?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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youngmack

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Yeah I know they aren't, but I want to know what made their interest level drop during the date..and sure what exactly do you want to know?
 
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