"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dont know if its just me or are girls just the biggest ****ing fakes known to man. When im alone with girls when her friends (boys and girls) arent around its prettty easy for me to get some ass. But once your in school or she's with her friends they act like your lowere than the dust of the earth. this pisses me off and confuses the **** out of me. But when another guy goes to her and does the same thing i do or even worse they get a totally differnt response. Like im tottaly pissed of at women i dont know why their so ****ing shallow and fake. someone explain this to me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You might get more responses if you used proper grammar/spelling. I will post my thoughts on your subject anyway, for the parts that I was able to understand.

Unfortunately, if you are in high school, many girls are considered to be "fake." Yes, I know, boo hoo. They tend to change as soon as they get older. But they most likely have a reason to be treating you that way and you probably put them on that pedestal. You have to let them know that it is NOT okay for them to treat you like dirt when they are around their friends. You may be wondering, "Well, how do I go about doing this?" It's simple. The next time they approach you, you ignore them! You need to show you are the prize.
Countless people come on this forum and ask simple questions and the same answer is that they are not acting like they are the prize. You are the man, not her. It's time you start acting like it. Become a more dominant character. I am not asking you to be arrogant or rude to them, but give them some neg's to bring them down to earth, that's all.

Hope I helped, best of luck with your situation.
 

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Weren't you one of the guys that said I was an idiot because I said hot girls won't go out with you if you don't score touchdowns? Heh...

Anyway, it's life. Just move on, really. There's definitely some cute girls without this kind of bull****. FEW, but there are some. Hang out with the dorky cute girls.
 

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It's because you have no reputation. Girls care about that. Case solved.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yea i guess your right Bling but im not gonna change try to become cool to get a fuking shallow ***** i dont do what girls want alkali i do what i want. so i guess ill just be jerking of for a while lol .
 

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Back in the day I use to like b!tches. But, now b!tches aint sh!t. Young playa, Its all good baby. Just keep getting some ass and throw em away when your done. Isn't that what they do to you? Just fvck em, leave em, and forget em!!! Don't trip cause some girl wants to ignore you after your done doin ur biziness with them. Move on with you life and have fun!! I didn't know not calling you back would make you cry...
 

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WTF to the responses...

Your response was pretty vague so a few questions. When your alone with the girl your saying you escalate and can get laid?

But when she's with her friends you can't seem to escalate because she is acting different?

Or overall she acts like she's never seen you?

Give an example? cause I have a feeling you misunderstand something that is going on.
 

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Arite i was hanging out with these girls in the summer. im a pretty ****y guy i dont try to be ****y like most sosuave people i just am. So i told these girls that i made up a new language that english is to unsophisticated for me and they laugh and speak it with me. usually when i touch these girls they touch me bakc and ****, But in school when everyone is trying to be popular i do the same thing and then their like your so wierd and i try to kino and their like dont touch me. It pisses me off where girls change their personalities like how they change their shirts. I do things like this not only to the same girls but with different girls that i approach in school and i know these girls have retarded personalities. But when i act retarded and ****y they start giving me that ****ing look. And act like they dont want to have anything to do with me when i know if i met her randomly liek at a beach where none of her friends are around i would get her easily
 

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Im not talking about one girl im talking about different approaching situations. Like i think approaching a girl on the street is alot easier than approaching a girl in school. When i approach on the street its easy for me to get her number when i do the language thing on the street or start randomly freestyling to them i get a laugh and a # and a **** later. When i do that in school i get a wtf r u doing. Your a wierdo stay away from me. I hope this explained it better .
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alkali said:
It's because you have no reputation. Girls care about that. Case solved.
Problem identified, maybe. What's the solution to getting a reputation?
 

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hmm I've had this too.


When I'm with a girl 1 on 1 i can fake a rep.


Its real easy.


I mean, DHV, kinda give you a rep for just that one girl dosnt it?



My friend tony knows every girl in the ****ing school, so that helps me out, and gets me ****blocked occasionally as well.
 

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no im not gonna fake a rep to get a girl i never do that i just be myself i dont try to be anyone else and if thats what it takes to get a shallow stupid ***** that only cares about reputation than i guess ill be jerking off for a while like i said above. girls dont care about rep they only care about it in school because thier fuking fakes thats waht i think. Im not a ***** i dont act liek sumthing im not for ***** .
 

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I have this same exact problem right now, when some girls i know are w/ there friends they ignore what I say sometimes or they act like I'm weird and when were not act school there like normal, I think ill do the ignoring thing like axcell said that defiantly sound like it will work and its something I should already be doing because otherwise they probably see me as the person who will make time no matter what for them, and thats something that is not true about me i have things that are more meaningful than to talk to that girl.... jtrain hopes the same for you, and if you think of it this way than its not changing yourself but managing your time now and then
 

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ok, dude, i dont know you but im goin to have a go at solving your problem, first of all why do you approach chicks what dont seem to respect you, i would bulk up it gets you soo much more respect, like axcell said neg them, lower them off their "pedestal, get more of a rep, do it for yourself, your gettin p1ssed off at getting negative responses, if you get a rep you are not being fake you are doing it for yourself,
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol yea lifesfun once i talk to a girl and she acts like im wierd than i keep doing what im doing to show them i dont giv a fuk what they think about me and if they keep trying to act tough i dont talk to them.. Lol and playa99 your wrong first of all im already big i weigh 205 and i bench like 315. getting a rep is the exavct opposite of being yourself when your yourself you dont need a rep because how u are is exactly how people see u. Getting a rep is basically acting like a girl girls are the ones that act fake in school and out were not supposed to do that and thats what a rep is being a fake son of a ***** thats to ***** to show his realsef. im not gonna act like im gangsta when im not just so people like me **** people. I dont even use techniques with girls nature has already gioven us all the instructions we need if they dont like that then **** them. acting fake to get a girl is putting her on the pedestal i hav better things to do like football then to concentrate on being a fake to get puss's that smell like dead fish. If thats what you do then i suggest you show your real self it taks alot of pressure of you. life gets aloyt eaiser and more fun because insted of you doing things cause everyone else likes them your doing its because you think its fun.
 

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getting a rep is exactly what the people like pook go against. That is denying your true self for the approval of other why do you need a rep i guarantee if you are yourself you will get a rep soon enough because nowadays people just wanna fit in if you be yourself you will stand out and that is what a reputation is. If girls dont like that im getting tired of writing this and my hand hurts cause i just finished doing this JERK THE **** OF. people are supossed to except you for who you are if they dont except you that most likely means they dont except themselves and their just hiding behind trhgeir pathetic little reps but i will stand man With GIRL OR WIThOUT girls most great men were bachelors anyway.
 
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