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When a girl tells you you are sweet is it a bad thing or a good one or can this be a one-way ticket to the friend zone:confused:
 

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to me it means you are on the vege of being -too- ncie. unless she says it after you do somethign super-special.
such as when a girl whispered in my ear whiel hugging me from behind "you're the sweetest guy in the world"
she wanted my ****. and she had proven it before by cheating on her bf...so yes, it can be a good thing.
ecsue me, i probably sound retarded. i'm drunk right now.
 

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ugh, You make whatever you can out of every situation.

If you act like your a freiking afc then your gonna be put in the friends zone. If you act like a don juan, you won't, Its that simple.

Hope that helps, if it doesn't read the bible.
 

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in simpler terms, what they are tryiing to tell you is it can be good or bad.

I have had it said to me, by a girl who also said that "she had fallen for me" and when she siad i was sweet that was a good thing, but a diffrent girl could say, your sweet, as in shes looking for a man not a boy, in that case it would be bad, and as always, it depnds on the girl aswell.

hope iv been a help
 

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I dunno why but being called sweet is like the biggest insault to me i can think of. It shouldnt be but i would rather have a chick call me a ****** jerk, than sweet. I am not a jerk, but still it doesnt seem to degrade my manhood as much. I guess its just a scar from my AFC days. I havent been called sweet in like 8 months and now all the girls like me.
 

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You gotta pull out some neg hits to balance it out. If you're too nice to the person, you'll be called "sweet"... which is usually bad.
 

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I got called sweet last nite and basically tried to argue it back, i dont like it, but i think its better just too let it ride rather than arguing yourself into a hole.
 

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Originally posted by BW14
When a girl tells you you are sweet is it a bad thing or a good one or can this be a one-way ticket to the friend zone:confused:
She says you're sweet.

I don't know. Try not overanalyzing so much. Man, if you're stressing this much over a little comment, you need to unwind and lighten up.

Hell, if you really wanna know, grab your balls and ask her what's crackin for friday night.
 

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It is usually meant in a good way. A girl won't call you sweet to insult you. There is nothing wrong with having a sweet side to you.

I usually respond something like: "Just wait till you get to know me, you'll see what kinda azzhole I am." Then keep her guessing.

Tease her a bit, play with her a bit, flirt, then mention something you don't like about her in a teasing manner.. It is good when she can't quite figure you out. One moment you're all nice, and the next you are teasing her.

If you know some girls that think you're sweet, practise on them. This will make you find the right balance to being sweet, teasing, and being mysterious.

You don't have to turn into a total jerk to have women be attracted to you.
 
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