“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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does she have interest or not?

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Met this chick in a salsa club. Danced two songs together, talked for 15 mins or so. She seemed pretty receptive. Got her number.

Next day I added her on fb cause I wanted to see some more pics of her before asking her out. She texted me to say that she accepted my friend request, and we exchanged some more texts.
Next day she said that she was gonna be at X salsa club (we both dance salsa) and that she would like to see me if im going there too.
I said I could not go cause I had other plans.

Next day (Monday) I texted her to set a date, she said that she had a trip because of her work until Saturday, but that we should keep in touch. I said ok. She asked me if I was gonna be on Sunday at X salsa club, I said maybe.

Sunday came and I went to this club. I saw her there, I just said hello and talked for 1 min before my friends came. I just went to talk to my friends. When we left the club 30 mins later, she was talking to some guy so I did not say bye or anything.

One week passed by. Today I text her, we talk for a bit, make some jokes. I suggest to go for a drink next Friday or Saturday. She tells me that shes gonna have her back teeth pulled out on Friday, but that she thinks she will be ok for Saturday.
I make some joke, and tell her ok if you are still alive we go to grab a drink next Saturday.
She says: lol, alright, we'll talk.


Now, what 's next?
a) I text her to see how she's feeling on Friday and to confirm the date.
b) I do nothing and see wif she texts me to confirm the date.

Thx.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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shes gonna have her back teeth pulled out on Friday, but that she thinks she will be ok for Saturday.

Wisdom teeth? She's not going to be in any mood to feel sexy.
 

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yes, wisdom teeth.

So how do I follow pls?
a) I text her to see how she's feeling on Friday and to confirm the date.
b) I do nothing and see wif she texts me to confirm the date.
 

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Yes, she's probably interested, but no, she's probably not going to be up for doing anything the day after getting her wisdom teeth pulled.

You could probably bring a movie to her place and watch something together. Then you can get to know her better and she'll start to feel more comfortable around you.
 

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You obviously have never had your wisdom teeth pulled if you think there will be a date. It is not a pleasant recovery. She will be on pain meds and have her jaws stuffed full of bloody gauze all weekend. You should tell her now that you know she will need the weekend to recover and wait until next weekend.
 

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I'm 27 she's 25.

Ive never had these teeth pulled out, and I guess she hasnt either...lol
well, Ill just text her some joke about it on Friday, something like:

'Hi HB, I hope everything goes well, just check that they do not pull out more teeth than necessary! if you're feeling ok we'll meet tomorrow but if not, we'll just leave it for next weekend when you're ok again'

pinkfl:
Ive never went out with this girl, so if I suggest something like that...I dont think its a good idea. If we had at least made out once...ok, but not in this case, not yet.
 

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I texted her what I wrote above.
she says that it hurts a lot and thanks.

we will see.
 

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I had my teeth pulled out last year and it took me like a week to heal, but if she was truly interested than she would be counter offering
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I guess I should not mention again to set a date unless she mentions it, right?
 
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