Does it build attraction to not text a girl as much in the early stages?

[pyros]

If you pay attention, here in this forum we have dozens of posts about guys talking about girls turning cold, or ignoring them after one or several good dates, or after sex etc.

Why is this...? is it that we all have so little Game that we get rejected at the end of the day? no. The fvcking problem is that nowadays women have so many options that they are ultra picky. They can meet many guys at any time and then chose which one best fits her ideal.
She may find a guy she really likes, go on three dates and then meet another one that she likes 'more', or maybe two different new guys, so now she's not sure about the first one...so she vanishes, goes cold, or ignores you, flake on you etc. And then we have guys here posting and complaining about this, or trying to know what they did wrong, or how to fix it.

Well, it doesnt matter what you do (unless you're a total disaster). They have so many guys to chose from that the chance of you being her ideal is little.
I think this is why in previous decades men were a lot more possesive and did not allow women to have so much freedom, because if they do...if they are allow to do whatever they want sexual/romantic related, THEY GET ALL THE POWER while men lose it all. And if they have all this power, then we men get all the trouble and our dating life becomes very difficult for the average man. Really difficult. This is why we always know some average or handsome guy hitting on fatties or uglies.

As Rollo Tomassi says: for one gender's sexual strategy to succeed the other gender must fail.

So OP, this is why now this chick is not interested in you anymore, because she has other options she likes more.
And this problem is gonna repeat with future girls too...

 

[NSX-R]

If you pay attention, here in this forum we have dozens of posts about guys talking about girls turning cold, or ignoring them after one or several good dates, or after sex etc.

Why is this...? is it that we all have so little Game that we get rejected at the end of the day? no. The fvcking problem is that nowadays women have so many options that they are ultra picky. They can meet many guys at any time and then chose which one best fits her ideal.
She may find a guy she really likes, go on three dates and then meet another one that she likes 'more', or maybe two different new guys, so now she's not sure about the first one...so she vanishes, goes cold, or ignores you, flake on you etc. And then we have guys here posting and complaining about this, or trying to know what they did wrong, or how to fix it.

Well, it doesnt matter what you do (unless you're a total disaster). They have so many guys to chose from that the chance of you being her ideal is little.
I think this is why in previous decades men were a lot more possesive and did not allow women to have so much freedom, because if they do...if they are allow to do whatever they want sexual/romantic related, THEY GET ALL THE POWER while men lose it all. And if they have all this power, then we men get all the trouble and our dating life becomes very difficult for the average man. Really difficult. This is why we always know some average or handsome guy hitting on fatties or uglies.

As Rollo Tomassi says: for one gender's sexual strategy to succeed the other gender must fail.

So OP, this is why now this chick is not interested in you anymore, because she has other options she likes more.
And this problem is gonna repeat with future girls too...

It's true what you say but that's not the problem.
The thing is that most of the men out there ,when they approach a female they behave and think too serious ,they never see the fun part and the enjoyment of it. It's like there is only one female in the world and if they can get her ,its the end.
That's why before they start to make approaches ,they hesitate because they think too seriously and they have not experienced yet that fun part of it.

 

[JohnChops]

if youre texting her fluff talk all day, then that does a few bad things. 1) it makes it seem like you are not busy, always by your phone, and all she has to do is text you to get ahold of you. No mystery, no nothing. Pretty much you're a loser with a nutsac. 2) if you text BS fluff talk, thats all it ever is. Text with a plan. Fluff talk is just that, fluff talk.

When I first start talking to a girl, I do text to build rapport, then I stop for a little bit (until she texts me). If she doesn't text me, ill shoot her a text and set up a date. No date = move on. Date = stop texting up until the day of the date.

People say you can't build rapport over text, I call BS on that. Texting is pseudo-communication because it lacks the body langauge like interpersonal contact. But, it still is a type of communication that can build a sense of similarity between the two of you. By that, I mean it makes it seem like you and her are alike. Like attracts like in the dating world, however not in science (yap ).

Also, if I see another mother****er post a text conversation when they say these things ill off myself:

1) Hey gorgeous how as your day
2) hey good lookin
3) whats up beautiful
4) how was your day? ( to a new girl, **** their day who gives a ****. Make the date, not a therapist text conversation about her **** day, because you know it was **** because women always want to complain about something to someone. Duh )
etcetc

Stop that pansy ****. Please.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Update: So I was suppose to see that girl tonight and last night I get this paragraph basically saying Girl: "Hey I don't know about tomorrow I am really trying to focus on me and school and I don't want to lead you on and the age thing sorta weirds me out."

Shakin' my muthaf*ckin' head.

Age: 32

Age: 34

Age: 34

Age: 32

Age: 28

See, this is why ole Rex doesn't and won't take these broads seriously because if any one of these dudes wanted to take ole girl out, I bet that she suddenly wouldn't be "weirded out," by their age. BTW, how and why did the question of age come up?

My Response

: "Not looking for anything either, just wanted to treat you to a good time, nothing serious. Age ain't nothing but a number at the end of the day and it didn't make a difference the other night lol." (when I was sucking and fingering her sh!t lol.)

This is where you f*cked up because you shouldn't have even dignified this sh*t with a response. You also f*cked up by reminding her of THOTish ways. This chick maybe getting indulging in gangbangs that involve triple penetration, but she doesn't necessarily want to be reminded of that. Real life story. Last semester, we had to interview somebody for an assignment in my Christian Marriage class, so I asked a classmate of mine. Ole girl was down to do it and we exchanged information. However, when it came time for me to do the interview ole girl wasn't anywhere to be found. I left her a message and I gave a day to respond. After hearing nothing the next day, I did the interview with my ex. Now a few days later, this b*tch hits me up with some lame ass excuse pertaining to work, school, and she hopes that I wasn't mad at her.

What did you do Rex? Rex didn't do a mutaf*ckin' thing. When I saw her in class, I gave her the "What's up?" head nod and acted like nothing was wrong. Lest of all, I didn't respond to her text because to do so would have been excusing her bad behavior, and believe me that sh*t really f*cked her head up because women can't deal with being ignored.

1 hour later she liked a few of my instagram photos but never responded lol. Today she never reached out.

Why is she still on your Instagram?

Thoughts/Opinions?

When you have a chance to f*ck a broad, that take opportunity right then and there because ole can tell you from experience, you only have finite amount of time to hit that ass before your window of opportunity closes.

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

Well, it doesnt matter what you do (unless you're a total disaster). They have so many guys to chose from that the chance of you being her ideal is little.

This is the rationalization of one with a scarcity mindset: "Boohoo, they just have too many options."

When a woman has high interest level in YOU, ALL other guys will fall by the wayside. If you are not finding women within the attractiveness level you seek who are WILLING to elevate you to deity status, this is an indication that your sexual market value (SMV) is lower than the women you pursue. Focus on increasing your SMV to eradicate the quoted restrictive machination.

 

[jackhamma]

Great responses once again. I agree that I should have responded back to her text with nothing more then "Alright cool another time." Instead of my big lengthy "Let me explain and defend myself response" because I get it now, it shows I care to much about some girl I met for 1 night lol.

I realize now thinking back I could of probably Fuked her in my truck that night..no idea why I didn't. My mind was thinking "Oh I'll have future opportunities to nail this chick!" EHHHH wrong! Gotta get that sh!t out of my head.

About her mentioning the age gap being "weird" I am turning 29 she is 18. I honestly look young, could of probably told her I was 24 and she would of believed me but I don't lie. I don't need to lie to get pusay. She even said at the party while we were hooking up how old I was and she goes "Oh good I like older guys!" If I had to guess she probably got talking to some young girlfriends and they all put there 2 cents in like "He is 11 years older then you!" "thats old!" "blah blah" and an 18 year old girl is easily influenced.

I do have to say I have not had an 18 year old girl in a while, and I enjoyed it. Live and learn.

Next this one, or any chance of getting to bang her in the future if I play my cards right?

Thoughts?

 

[Maximus Rex]

Great responses once again. I agree that I should have responded back to her text with nothing more then "Alright cool another time."

Why even say that? Ole girl disrespected you and your intelligence and by default she wasn't worthy of a response from you.

Next this one, or any chance of getting to bang her in the future if I play my cards right?

Thoughts?

Two questions, why aren't you doing 5:46 of the clip

because if you were, you could careless about seeing and/or f*cking her at future date.

You need to post some pictures of the broad because this is the third time that you've inquired about your oneitis. You've making it seem like ole girl looks is on par with

"SHE IS NOT REALLY INTO YOU. She could be fvcking other guys or not. She could be going on dates or not. She could just change her mind and don't feel like seeing you. Whatever the constant here is that....she is not really interested in you. Stop creating new threads about it."

Pay very close to attention to that quote, read it 50 times, have a good single malt, then read it another 50 times ,and let it sink in that this particular chick isn't trying to f*ck with you, nor should you with her. Now should the your astrological charts coincide, the planets be in alignment, the tide be receding, during the next Manhattanhenge, then go for it, but until then stop asking about a chick who was weirded out by having her titties sucked and finger popped in a truck by some random guy she met at a Halloween party that was nine years her senior, then had the nerve to insult her about her THOTish ways.

 

[dustmuffin]

No interest...move on.....