"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does anyone understan Blagging for Britain?

DJ_in_making

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You know the main story on the home page. What was the second guy doing differently from the first guy?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alpine

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Damn you yanks.

Anyways, I kinda find I'm writing in Amercanese thanks to you all. I don't now what I'm gonna do, it's biatchin dudes.

You have a good day now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spider_007

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they felt sorry for the guy because he had nobody to take to the dance. The pressure of "dating" was lifeted becasuse all he was asking was her company to the place. She could hook up with anybody she found attractive there.......
 

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Did anyone watch it btw?

Or anyone know if its part of a series or just a one off? - i missed it but it'd be interesting to watch if there was another one on sometime
 
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