"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does anyone else have ZERO interest in females or a relationship barre sex

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I mean I dont get no desires, I get no thoughts of love, I get no crushes. etc.

Its been this way since about 16. When I left school.

I mean I enjoy making out but afterwards im pretty happy to have the girl gone. Ive never looked for or cared to look for that 1 special girl. And I never try even for sex much.

But I think Ill be single til I die unless a relationhsip gives me some kind off financial benefity or something?


Dont get me wrong I like girls and some girls I get on well with and others I dislike but I dont think oh shes cool i want her to be my gf etc...

And sex is just fun and sexual. Not emotional.

But im a loner kinda and not the most social guy in the world so that transfers to all relationships I have, male freinds also. I dont care or have time for most people, just by my nature.

Well anyway I dunno just funny situation.

I even meta 9/10 babe at work, and not only 9/10 looks but personailty too, she for sure wanted to hook up with me but at best I woudl have her as a freind and a sex partnet. BUT not a gf as in I would not want to hang out with her all the time or phone calls etc...Just a girl Id **** and maybe talk to on msn/facebook now and then etc....thats about as far as Id want a relationship to go. Im not into cinema, wine and dine, meals, activities etc....apart from sex Like I say id talk on facebook now and then maybe watch a dvd in my room but thats about as far as Id go with a girl which is pretty dull for them. But overall I just dont care.

If I was rich I would pay for attratvive hookers a few times per week and buy like a girl as in a maid etc..as long as I got some dudes to hang with not to fussed about a girl. If I wanted Id get a chill girl but still not care much and use hookers. well I aitn rich so this dont matter lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cause you got autism in one form or another, right?
 

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Haha I banged a pretty unsexy girl last week... she got me drunk... and the next morning, I felt like you are describing :D
 
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PapiChulo said:
Cause you got autism in one form or another, right?
yeh maybe thats why?

it aint normal?

Well I mean I really like to make out and sexual things but after that like Id rather play video games

I mean wouldnt y'all

hang with a girl or enjoy your hobbies?

Id rather enjoy my hobbies than hang with a girl

But Id rather sex than my hobbies

Sex>hobbies>girls

Noone agree?

Time spent with a girl not having sex is time wasted i could be enjoying other things.

The thing is I think most girls want a trade in time for sex. No girl wants a guy just to use her for sex unless you can find a fuk buddy. But good luck finding a hot fuk buddy that you only see for sex..right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Give up the porn.

How many times do I have to say it?

Women can be great companions. You don't have to get all serious with them, just have a good time. And once you get to know a girl the sex gets even better.

And give up the porno. It is messing up your view of women.
 
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Echoes said:
Give up the porn.

How many times do I have to say it?

Women can be great companions. You don't have to get all serious with them, just have a good time. And once you get to know a girl the sex gets even better.

And give up the porno. It is messing up your view of women.
I agree some women can be cool

But its my perosnialty. I dont even like to hang with dudes.

I like to be alone by preference.

Like I get drained around people and tired. I think cause Im intorverted?

I dunno I guess its just me.

Plus maybe sad but I liek to play video games and watch dvds and tv. I prefer to do them alone though. I can play video games all day. Id rather play video games like battlefield etc online than hang with a girl when not getting sex. This is odd?
 
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I have ZERO interest in one night stands.

I'm actually down for a relationship, but finding the right fit isn't proving easy. I wouldn't rule out a FB situation depending on the girl and whether or not I get on with her well and whether or not it will cause me problems.

The life you lead or want to lead doesn't sound like the kind of life I would want to lead. It sounds very miserable and very lonely. However, if all you want is sex with women and you don't mind paying visit a brothel or head on down to clubs. Start being more social, make friends with guys and go on a guys holiday to somewhere where the music is banging and alcohol is flowing.

You need to ring the changes if you want to see different results.
 
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perseverance said:
I have ZERO interest in one night stands.

I'm actually down for a relationship, but finding the right fit isn't proving easy. I wouldn't rule out a FB situation depending on the girl and whether or not I get on with her well and whether or not it will cause me problems.

The life you lead or want to lead doesn't sound like the kind of life I would want to lead. It sounds very miserable and very lonely. However, if all you want is sex with women and you don't mind paying visit a brothel or head on down to clubs. Start being more social, make friends with guys and go on a guys holiday to somewhere where the music is banging and alcohol is flowing.

You need to ring the changes if you want to see different results.
well yeh my life is odd and a bit lonely but i dont expect a women to fill that void.

I used to have lots of freinds at school and play soccer 2,3x per week and golf.

But I neither play soccer or golf these days.

I dont like clubs or pubs, parties are ok tbh.

all my old freinds soccer and school kinda faded away so thats the lonely problem, not girls really.

I need to get new soccer mates and gofl perhaps etc..and maybe music etc..
 
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I like your first sentence, a woman should never be used as a filler. She should be a welcome addition to your already complete life.

You can meet women anywhere, but you do need to have a flourishing social life, so you can meet a wider range of women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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perseverance said:
I like your first sentence, a woman should never be used as a filler. She should be a welcome addition to your already complete life.

You can meet women anywhere, but you do need to have a flourishing social life, so you can meet a wider range of women.
I think girls look for men to fill their void.

Personally im a guy guy. I like sports, music, video games, guns, fcuking lol stuff like that. I used to have so many freinds at school, at soccer, online gaming etc..well last few years people move on and out and its dried up.

Thats the problem. Also as I dotn go to clubs, pubs, parties people stop contacting you.

For me having a girl and no life is worse than a life with no girl.

I miss my freinds and soccer etc..I am still a homely person though and very lazy lol.

ANyway what this gotta do with anything lol...fact is Im on this site cause I want hot girls pusy lol....So, I should be looking for advice on that!! How to get hot pusy easy lol, thats what I wanna know. And better social skills for inetacting with girls with a view to sex. And how to tlak sex with girls and brign sex up..thats what I need to know.
 
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