"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Does anybody else go thru this????

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Willis

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Alright, everytime i met a chick or get to know her they always want me to be in a RELATIONSHIP with them, spend time with them,go to this place with them, meet there friends, and all that :nono: but is this good or bad??:confused: ...i hate relationships now due to my past with a couple of other girls, i tend to steer clear of relationships and dont want to ever get married or have children...EVER...

i read that there are two types of males and the beta male is normally the guy who is in the relationship with the chick while she's off fvcking the rockstar badboy type....i dont wanna be the beta guy at all..:nono:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Diaforetikos

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It's up to you on what you want. At a younger age, guys tend to "spin plates", but as you get older you may start to settle for a relationship.

I think if your spinning a couple plates, your just out to have fun, and that's what I think you need. Your not tied down to constant nagging and random phone calls from them asking why your at the club and not with her.

Just have fun.
 
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GrenadeGloves

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I agree with Diaforetikos.. Do what you want man. When girls realize that you are the Sh*t, of course they will want to date you. And the fact that you don't want to date them makes them want you even more. Just keep pimpin it man until you find one that you realize is the Sh*t that you want to date...

Just remember one thing... You will probably eventually find a girl that is so sick, sexy, intelligent and beautiful that you'll want her for your own. When that happens... and this is important so listen up... DON'T CHANGE YOUR WAYS WITH HER. TREAT HER LIKE EVERY OTHER LITTLE GIRL THAT WANTS TO DATE YOU AND YOU WONT DATE. The moment that you turn into the needy/wussy type the roles will swap and you'll be the one wanting the chick to meet your friends.. blah blah blah. Don't change when you find her man. Don't let her know she's any different and she'll be eating out of your hand, and you may just get that chick. Hope that made any sense.. haha
 
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