"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does anybody believe this guy?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes. I believe him as much as I believe Pat Robinson.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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judging by his website, he seems to be some kind of galactic entity that channels itself through the human named Darryl Anka.

There are plenty of people who believe in channels and mediums, and many of the more famous ones make quite a bit of money. Abraham and Esther Hicks come to mind. Most of the law of attraction (at least in "the secret") is based on them.

May seem like complete nonsense, but no more illogical than believing there is a supreme ruler of the universe who sent his only son to die for out sins, and despite the hundreds of thousands of different spiritual belief systems out there, the only path to heaven is through Him.

Lots of people believe crazy stuff. I once went to a local meeting of UFO enthusiasts, and they had some crazy speakers that believed aliens were channeling themselves through humans. A few doctors and engineers were believers as well.

I'll say one thing for that Bashar cat though, he sure was articulate. He'd be a good model if you were to practice for public speaking or something.
 

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Ok so if he really was channeling an alien or whatever, why would he try to profit from this? He says to have the rules for living a great life, shouldn't he give this message freely, like jesus for example. So why would an alien want earth money? Even tho I dont believe in christiniaty or any religion, I admire that they are non profits and try to help the needy, but this guy is just trying to make himself rich.
 

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n00bPimp said:
but this guy is just trying to make himself rich.
If the believers were really intelligent they would be asking the same questions. But they're not. They're stupid sheep, and that's why he chooses to take advantage of them. He's a very opportunistic con artist.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
He's a very opportunistic con artist.
I disagree. I think he really believes that he is channeling some alien. His website and videos are pretty amateurish. The real con artists are those TV evangelists asking for donations every twenty seconds. This guy just sells a few tapes on his website.

Even if he were an overt con artist, he's a pretty terrible one. His website is amateurish, and he doesn't have any "end of the world" message to convince people to send him money or anything. If you had an audience the size that he's got, (which I have no idea how big it is) who believed you were honestly channeling some alien from the future, there'd be plenty better ways to milk 'em.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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