"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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StevenR

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okay, since I seemed to be so rotten about being able to tell a womans intentions on a date, i.e. if she likes me or not, I have some specific questions.
I recently joined a local photography club so I could practice and become proficient at digital studio photography, and I was at a meeting last weekend where there were several models there. They were not actually professional models, but they were nurses and hospital employees that this gal whose house we were at. I think that out of three of the single ones two of them I thought may have liked me. One of them touched me on the arm when we first met and talked. How strong of an indication is that she may have been attracted to me?

The second lady arrived a little late but said she was just there to chat but told here friend she didn't want to model because she thought she was too fat(she had a great body, not fat at all that I could tell). I got talking to her and she seemed to take a real interest in my life. She also giggled at a lame joke I made, for some reason I got the feeling she may have been open to seeing me again but I wasn't sure. In any case I was too chicken sht to do anything and I am kicking myself now for not.

My two questions are do you think these are indications that either of them may have been interested, and second is there a good way to get them in a position where I can ask them out or something? I sort of know that lady who hosted the get together(in her mid 50's and married), but there is no guarantee that I will see any of her coworkers again :(

The third incident happened the other night, a HB, probably college aged, at the local grocery store just asked me what I was doing tonight. She checked me out(my groceries that is), a couple times before and seemed friendly but this seemed a little different. I told here I was going to be trying out some new photo studio equipment that I got home, and she correctly guessed that some of the food I was buying was going to be used for that purpose before it got eaten. The then told me that she had always been interested in photography and talked about it some more before she had to move on to the next customer. She is probably at least a decade younger than I am so I don't know what to think about that either. Am I just imagining that all these chicks suddenly dig me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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iqqi

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Nope. It's not all in your head.

Now you just need to be a little more charming and inviting.

And I mean inviting, in the literal sense.

Examples to come...
 

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I've learnt thru experience not to pay to much notice to this. Some girls will just not give you any IOI's, but they'll still sleep with you, and this happened to me on more than one occassion.

It can happen the other way, this girl I just nexted like 5 mins ago after she gave me the LJBF...she gave me the eye in class for like, the whole time nearly, we went to a house party, all over each other, made out and then this BS....so yea, girls are like that.

Go for what YOU want, not just who you think likes you in the first place.
 
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