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Doctors no show fee 40 bucks delinquent, threatening collections

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So I made this doctors appointment a few months ago, and never showed or called them to cancel. I never went into the doctors office, I never filled out any information. They simply got some info over the phone from me, but most importantly I never signed anything.

How can they escalate this 40 dollar fee? I know I am a prick for not paying it, I don't care. I have been trashing the bill for 3 months when it comes. How could they enforce? I will just deny it was me. Maybe someone did it to screw with me.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Do they have your social security number? They would need that to put it on your credit report.
I think I gave it to them over the phone unfortunately. That's all they need to legally screw my credit?
 

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If they do have your social, then yes indeed. Your credit score is about to get bent over and fvcked. They don't need any sort of evidence to do it. It's not like they have to prove their case in front of a judge just to report to the credit bureaus.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
If they do have your social, then yes indeed. Your credit score is about to get bent over and fvcked. They don't need any sort of evidence to do it. It's not like they have to prove their case in front of a judge just to report to the credit bureaus.
How bad could it kill my credit? I ignored a bank fee of 300 dollars a few years ago, didn't hurt too bad. I already have all the credit cards I need plus a mortgage, so why should I care? I am already to the point where I will never be able to get another mortgage.

I also suspect they are bluffing about sending 40 bucks to collection.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Your score should drop a bit with an open collection. But if you don't see yourself wanting credit any time soon, it won't matter very much. If you already have that bank fee on your credit report now, then this $40 will not make much of a difference. But if you currently have no open collections on your report, then I think it's worth $40 to stay that way.
 

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So I made this doctors appointment a few months ago, and never showed or called them to cancel. I never went into the doctors office, I never filled out any information. They simply got some info over the phone from me, but most importantly I never signed anything.

How can they escalate this 40 dollar fee? I know I am a prick for not paying it, I don't care. I have been trashing the bill for 3 months when it comes. How could they enforce? I will just deny it was me. Maybe someone did it to screw with me.
Count on your President to sue the office. Or the establishment haha. Wish I had time for these squables.
 
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Malice said:
So I made this doctors appointment a few months ago, and never showed or called them to cancel. I never went into the doctors office, I never filled out any information. They simply got some info over the phone from me, but most importantly I never signed anything.

How can they escalate this 40 dollar fee? I know I am a prick for not paying it, I don't care. I have been trashing the bill for 3 months when it comes. How could they enforce? I will just deny it was me. Maybe someone did it to screw with me.
Like BB said, if they've got your social, they've got everything they need to legally rob you, or at least try.

But if you're not too worried about the credit ding, don't worry about it.

One thing you COULD do, though, if you're feeling like getting a bit of revenge, so post a "review" of this doc on Yelp or some other consumer site, explaining what happened.

Just be as objective and factual as possible, so you won't get sued for libel. Post your review in various consumer / doctor forums, etc.

Then if he sends your bill to collections, send him a friendly email with your Yelp review.
 

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The state of the law in your jurisdiction and competent legal counsel is of utmost importance in formulating a specific response, you never know what kinds of weird lobbied-for state statutes or local ordinances have been bought by creditors' lobbies via graft, it's a sticky legal area with lots of stink of bad law and graft in it. So the following is just a broad, general discussion of one possible response you may consider -after- obtaining jurisdictional knowledge and speaking to local counsel.

Generally, consider sending them a denial letter stating that you deny the debt, did not agree to it in any way, orally or in writing, at any time. Further, you believe that their attempts to assess and collect it are not only generally unlawful but intentionally fraudulent, arise and amount to violations of both state and federal statutes and cases governing debts, contract formation and enforceability, fraud, and other well-settled areas of common and statutory law.

Instruct them clearly to cease all further collection attempts, statements or communications of any nature with you immediately, that any negative reporting to credit bureaus will trigger immediate legal action in the form of a complaint filed in local magistrate/small claims court against them by you, and that the damages claimed in such a suit will far exceed $40. Further, consider stating that any future contacts or attempted contacts addressed to you from their practice will result in bills to their practice from you at the rate of $250 an hour for reading and responding to such attempted contacts. Should be no more than a one page letter. Once more, know the local law before proceeding with any type of response or plan.

Would not post anything negative on review sites, as defamation actions for such are getting more and more common. Generally, it's a good idea not to mention specific people, places, things, businesses in any sort of internet posts going forward unless you can document whatever you are claiming and are prepared to do so.

Good luck.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I get you not wanting to pay the bill, but if I were you I'd just pay it and be done with it. Probably easier than having it go to full blown collections and nicking your credit. Most busy medical offices have policies to charge people for no-shows, because it happens ALL THE TIME and it wastes their fvcking time.

I work in a busy clinic and my patients no-show constantly. They think "appointments" are arbitrary and essentially just show up whenever the fvck they want. A lot of people think medicine is just like a fast food drive through and they want platinum care with no effort on their part whatsoever.

So, you purposefully ditched the appointment and didnt call to cancel, now you gotta pay a fine. That's life, and I dont blame them for having this policy. I try to get patients discharged for noncompliance at least a few times a month because they are chronic no-show dirtbags who waste our time and dont deserve to be treated. Not saying you are a dirtbag, but just pay the fine and move on.
 
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