"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you travel a lot for business/any tips

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There are times I travel two to three weeks a month for business. Do any of you travel a lot? If so have any tips for when out of town?

It seems when I'm home it's easier to close the deal.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Traveling is what will make you a man. It requires an enormous amount of responsibility and resources to travel without anything going wrong. To be able to make an itinerary in another city and execute it to the letter is what allows you to be a master of dating.

When you are on the road your senses are more alive, time goes slower, your frame rate in your memory is higher, because you are experiencing sights, sounds, smells and objects you never encountered before.

Women love an accent also, which you have in another city. Plus, since you are earning money, you can be generous when you get to the tavern for a beer after a hard day.

I've found that when I move to a new city I immediately gravitate to where the best girl is. On my first day in my current city I went to BOTH venues where my girlfriend would later work as a dancer - before she started there (there were dozens of options). I later met her at the third venue where she would work - a 5 star hotel restaurant. Note that all three venues were at least 20 miles away from my house, and even from each other.

Know that the Universe will set you up with your ideal match and it's not random chance.

The key to travelling is to budget, deduct expenses, and try to eat healthy on the road (way too easy to indulge in fast food). Also, you should ALWAYS wear a tie on the road. Dress for success. You might rent a room from a gorgeous Russian girl like I did in NYC, which led to one of my true loves.
 

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