"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you think women Fvck up their lines too?

verysuave

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when they talk to guys, they end up saying dumb things that make u think "uhh, she's getting all weird and sh1t"

Share experiences if any
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women are people too, remember that. Theyre no exception to the rule.
 

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it's just that all i hear is on this board is "oh man, I blew it. I effed up my pick up.. bla bla bal" it just seems like its always us who ef up so i thought i wanted to make a point to the guys here that i think sometimes i think it's not just you who is effing up your conversation with a woman per say
 

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it's not just you who is effing up your conversation with a woman per say
excellent point :up:
No matter how hard I try, I usually can't carry on much of a conversation with a girl who is lame or who has totally different interests than me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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don't be silly; we have just as much room for error as they do
 
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