"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think the movie "Revenge of the Nerds" has inspired "rape culture"?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maybe the movie was supposed to be like that, like many pieces of art it shouldn't necessarily be used as a template for life... Movies with violence doesn't say violence is right...

They're dumb fvcks, everyone knows that. Feminism will never triumph.
 

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Haven't seen it since the 80s, but I do not recall it being anything like what this male feminist Noah Brand is describing. I just think he's pissed at his live and how it turned out. Plus, since he's mid 40's now, he's possibly cowering to his wife and entering mid-life crisis mode. I did wiki the movie and find it interesting that the jock frat was called "Alpha Betas". I got a chuckle out of that.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Revenge_of_the_Nerds
 

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Lewis has sex with the jock's girlfriend while he is in disguise, pretending to be her boyfriend. I've never thought that was the most scrupulous thing to do, that scene always seemed a little off to me. After she has the D inside her, she doesn't care and decides she likes him.

The idea here is that the jock treated her badly, and if the hot girl would just give the nerd a chance, he would treat her better. Sounds like the typical "nice guy", doesn't it. There's also a message that nerds are better at sex because they "think about it all the time".
 
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