"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think that women who decide to get married because they perceive the Wall closing in, but later stop perceiving, tend to cancel the wedding?

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:
She stunned this week after revealing that she is 'stronger and happier than ever' after she secretly cancelled her wedding plans.
my theory: She was beginning to perceive that she was about the hit the Wall (which granted is still a great place to be, unlike the wall for most women :rolleyes: ), probably by noticing a weight gain, and thus decided to get married; but then she was able to tone down, and thus the impetus for her to marry had gone away, and hence also her desire to get married.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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