"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you think Pamela Anderson's moralizing against p0rn is because she has hit the wall?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trunks

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Maybe? idk. but she wasn't technically in porn, right? her leaked videos were supposed to be private, afaik
 

BetterCallSaul

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And her posing for Playboy?
 

ubercat

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I reckon Playboys kind of marginal. I mean the whole Internet swamped with chicks nude selfies it's going a bit far to accuse them of being in porn. And in my opinion the Elle McPherson Playboy shoot really was art
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes, THAT Pamela Anderson.

http://www.wsj.com/articles/take-the-pledge-no-more-indulging-porn-1472684658?mod=trending_now_4

my theory: She has finally come to the conclusion that she has hit the wall, so she wants to get the culture to not overly value the product that has been her career! Temporal solipsism!
lol I guess she tried to slut up to someone and turned her down.

woman like to "fight" against porn and hookers, becasue that remove some of her power, remember some guys are marrying a anime char because that is more apealing to then and better then dealing with real woman.

also woman know very well the best way to control a men is with sex, that is the only reason a dude would even go to a LTR and marry one, because that was more cheaper and easier to have sex, no woman would open her legs without a ring on her finger, and now since we can get ONS or woman are opening more easier, why anyone would go to a LTR?
 

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Hmm....she used her body/looks to make a living her entire life. She was on the cover of Playboy more than anybody else. She modeled for Playboy for close to 20yrs. Playboy might be mild by today's standards, but it was still considered "p0rn" 20+yrs ago.

So now she is condeming it all? Does she feel bad for what she did for all those years? Maybe she should donate all her earnings to charity since she feels its so horrible.

Anyone who over indulges in something is going to have problems. P0rn is no different than alcohol/drugs. If you can't control yourself it is going to control you.

She's feeling the effects of hitting the wall, or its a publicity stunt to keep her name in the out there. Kind of like those leaked video's of Tommy Lee and her.
 

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Yes, THAT Pamela Anderson.

http://www.wsj.com/articles/take-the-pledge-no-more-indulging-porn-1472684658?mod=trending_now_4

my theory: She has finally come to the conclusion that she has hit the wall, so she wants to get the culture to not overly value the product that has been her career! Temporal solipsism!
I'm guessing the men/man in her life are watching porn and she doesn't like the tables being turned. Flaunting her young body around and stealing looks and attention from men in relationships/marriages was fine when she wasn't the one losing anything.
 

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I reckon Playboys kind of marginal. I mean the whole Internet swamped with chicks nude selfies it's going a bit far to accuse them of being in porn. And in my opinion the Elle McPherson Playboy shoot really was art
If you can fap to it, it's porn. :p
 

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Sounds like she's no longer getting the playboy picture shoots and soft corn roles these days... and is disgruntled.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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