"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think lack of a woman's libido is just her not thinking she has to put out to keep her man?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article on how poorly the "female Viagra" drug is selling - especially when compared to the super blockbuster that Viagra has been - and it got me thinking ...

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/artic...libido-pill-isn-t-selling?cmpid=BBD111715_BIZ

My take is that the typical woman just doesn't have that much interest in the mechanics or desire (in a pure sense) of sex, other than getting pregnant and keeping her man from straying - or being looked upon as woman that can't keep a man - or catching a man, etc. So since women generally don't need to be feeling the intense desire, they don't see the point of taking a medicine that gives them this desire; they get much more interested in sex when they think "if I don't continue to put out for hubby, he's going to try boinking that cute intern at his office".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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grayclif

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A few things I found interesting about this drug.
1. It only works on 10% more of the population than a placebo. Seems a crapshoot considering it's price per pill.
2. You can't take if with alcohol.
3. Viagra is $26 a pill.
 

mrgoodstuff

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Id say thats part of it. Lack of libido means they aren't attracted to you, and its women do not fvck AND enjoy men they are not attracted to. Think of it as a guy who will only fvck strippers but is in a LTR anyway, lol.

Lots of frigid wives cheat and enjoy sex a great deal.
This is a good example... Some women will keep up their end of the sexual bargain even if their physical attraction has wained. As a DJ it's a chance you should never take. Like he said think of it as a guy who will only **** strippers, and keep your SMV to that level of a very physically attractive male, dress, style and body and you will be fine.
 
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