"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think hypergamy is to blame for skyrocketing rate of STD?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yup. Simple as that. I just got treated for chlamydia.

I wouldnt worry about oral unless she has warts visible or is sick. HIV transmission is very low from female to male if it's vaginal or oral. Wouldnt worry about that much either.

My doc said the chlamydia was going around a lot. And I talked to another guy in the docs office who was saying he had fun with two ladies the night before and his D was all red and irritated, freaking out. So yes, be careful.
When I got chlamydia, the irritation was all in the urethra; urination was NOT fun! :mad:
 
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