Do You Think Cheating Runs In The Family?

[Young OG]

I was thinking about this recently. My kids mom is a big cheater and was before I was with her. She was faithful to me for many years, but couldn't keep it up and ended up cheating on me with 3 different men. Her sister is a cheater too. They were both raised by there grandma, who was cheating on the grandpa, and eventually left the grandpa for the man she was cheating with. Her sister used to be really fat and lived with her boyfriend. Eventually, she lost tons of weight and guys started paying attention to her. She started banging many guys behind her boyfriends back and ended up getting a std. Then she got pregnant by one of those guys and moved in with him.

So what do you guys think? Does it run in the family?

 

[piranha45]

cheating is a form of deception

I think lying/cheating falls in the same category. I think the thread would be more accurate if relabeled under this broad term, rather than trying to pigeonhole it under sex-related cheating only.

And if that were done I'd say "yes, some people have a greater genetic propensity to lie/cheat".

 

[Albatross953]

If dad cheated, watch your six! We model what we know.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I was thinking about this recently. My kids mom is a big cheater and was before I was with her. She was faithful to me for many years, but couldn't keep it up and ended up cheating on me with 3 different men. Her sister is a cheater too. They were both raised by there grandma, who was cheating on the grandpa, and eventually left the grandpa for the man she was cheating with. Her sister used to be really fat and lived with her boyfriend. Eventually, she lost tons of weight and guys started paying attention to her. She started banging many guys behind her boyfriends back and ended up getting a std. Then she got pregnant by one of those guys and moved in with him.

So what do you guys think? Does it run in the family?

We emulate what we know. So it's no guarantee that they will be a cheater, but it is much more likely. In some of the families you described, it sounds like they just accepted "this is how we are".

 

[SAYNO]

I was thinking about this recently. My kids mom is a big cheater and was before I was with her. She was faithful to me for many years, but couldn't keep it up and ended up cheating on me with 3 different men. Her sister is a cheater too. They were both raised by there grandma, who was cheating on the grandpa, and eventually left the grandpa for the man she was cheating with. Her sister used to be really fat and lived with her boyfriend. Eventually, she lost tons of weight and guys started paying attention to her. She started banging many guys behind her boyfriends back and ended up getting a std. Then she got pregnant by one of those guys and moved in with him.

So what do you guys think? Does it run in the family?

That's another reason (among many others) as to why fatties should be avoided at all costs!:yes: Because once the weight comes off they will cheat! Think about it most fat females have very low self esteem and as soon as another guy looks her way(esp one that would have never gave her attention at her former weight) she will start to feel like she can do better.:kick: To be honest a female should be avoided if she has ever had a weight problem, I don't care how thin she is now, that former fat-body image, is something lingers in their mind almost forever. Basically if she's fat now and loses weight, as soon as the weight comes off her panties will come of just as fast or faster!