Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I could use some for the bald spot, but my hairline is looking great. I have instead let my front hair grow long, and slick it back, like California Governor (and perhaps POTUS #48/49) Newsom. I need to get some good hair spray, LOL.Go to turkey and get a hair transplant, your life will be 100% better, so will your mental health and sex life.
I did it myself for a condition way less bad that him and I can confirm it.
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The suggestion to just shave it all and forget doesnt work with guys that dont have very masculine faces or are below 35.
I do a forward-side combover. I rate 4 on the Norwood scale and don’t care. My wife doesn’t care, nor do women I catch checking me out.I was watching this BaldingCel complain about how he got turned down at Home Depot, and I couldn't help but notice his hair.
If I had a dollar for every time I heard this I could get hair transplant.The suggestion to just shave it all and forget doesnt work with guys that dont have very masculine faces or are below 35.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
They mention all the time the rock, vin diesel, statham as if jacked millionnaires with high status and fame were to be subjected to the same rule of the average man.If I had a dollar for every time I heard this I could get hair transplant.
Honestly I think it's cope.
I refuse to go that route though simply because it's started to become "the look" associated with aging millenial hipsters or younger Gen-X (especially with a beard) and I don't think most men can pull it off.
The same men that act like it's pretentiou or superficial to care about your apperance will spend a fortune of time and money on something as pedantic as lawncare or waxing their cars.
I’ve been balding since 2015 and can only recall 2 times women made fun of my hairline (one of them was a female cousin). The other time was some chick at a club that tried to use me for drinks. She also told the bouncer I was bothering her after she saw I had little followers on instagram. But before we even exchanged instagram she was all over me. So it was lack of social media followers first, and then she backwards rationalized I wasn’t attractive due to balding.If I had a dollar for every time I heard this I could get hair transplant.
Honestly I think it's cope.
I refuse to go that route though simply because it's started to become "the look" associated with aging millenial hipsters or younger Gen-X (especially with a beard) and I don't think most men can pull it off.
The same men that act like it's pretentiou or superficial to care about your apperance will spend a fortune of time and money on something as pedantic as lawncare or waxing their cars.
Did you read the last paragraph? not to be unpolite, just wanna stress the final conclusion of the point.I’ve been balding since 2015 and can only recall 2 times women made fun of my hairline (one of them was a female cousin). The other time was some chick at a club that tried to use me for drinks. She also told the bouncer I was bothering her after she saw I had little followers on instagram. But before we even exchanged instagram she was all over me. So it was lack of social media followers first, and then she backwards rationalized I wasn’t attractive due to balding.
Yes, these women exist. But if you’re going to give up just because you’re balding, that’s even worse than coping.
Do I plan to get a hair transplant? Yes I do. The same way fat guys plan to go to the gym. But I’m not going to quit the game or use that as an excuse for not getting laid.
Look up amateur and home made porn and see how many out of shape and bald guys getting laid.
Improve yourself for you, but don’t use it as an excuse why you can’t procreate when your genetics survived millions of years of evolution through worser times.
Imagine your ancestors looking at you complain about your hair line when they had to kill wooly mammoths.
Yea I did. I was more so responding to the other poster who said bald men are coping. The only reason why I would consider a hair transplant is self expression and has nothing to do with trying to get laid.Did you read the last paragraph? not to be unpolite, just wanna stress the final conclusion of the point.
It's way more than just women, it's about freedom and individuality, when it comes much harder if you are a visual copy of most of those around you.
It's virtually impossible for a man to be both short & bald and be successful with women.Few men in their 20s bald. If a man reaches an age at which men typically bald cannot find a woman, something else went or is wrong.
But you are forgetting the women in your greater social circle, or at a nightspot, etc. that did a quick analysis of you and had made the determination "he's not good enough in the rest of his persona to make up for his bad hair".I’ve been balding since 2015 and can only recall 2 times women made fun of my hairline (one of them was a female cousin). The other time was some chick at a club that tried to use me for drinks. She also told the bouncer I was bothering her after she saw I had little followers on instagram. But before we even exchanged instagram she was all over me. So it was lack of social media followers first, and then she backwards rationalized I wasn’t attractive due to balding.
Yes, these women exist. But if you’re going to give up just because you’re balding, that’s even worse than coping.
Do I plan to get a hair transplant? Yes I do. The same way fat guys plan to go to the gym. But I’m not going to quit the game or use that as an excuse for not getting laid.
Improve yourself for you, but don’t use it as an excuse why you can’t procreate when your genetics survived millions of years of evolution through worser times.
Few of us are hung like Ron Jeremy, although some of us could be as charismatic as him on a porno set.Look up amateur and home made porn and see how many out of shape and bald guys getting laid.
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Back then, there were few men that survived the non-stop warfare, and the womenfolk needed men to survive. Our current dystopia is about as far removed from that as can be.Improve yourself for you, but don’t use it as an excuse why you can’t procreate when your genetics survived millions of years of evolution through worser times.
Imagine your ancestors looking at you complain about your hair line when they had to kill wooly mammoths.
He went to my high school.Few of us are hung like Ron Jeremy, although some of us could be as charismatic as him on a porno set.
Do you know how many times woman have made fun of my hair? Zero. In fact, most of them, including random strangers, have complimented it. So yes, I'm sorry for not-pretending that I don't care about my hair. I'm not at the point where I have to worry about it, but I'd do whatever it takes to maintain it if that day ever comes.I’ve been balding since 2015 and can only recall 2 times women made fun of my hairline (one of them was a female cousin).
Men in wheelchairs or tiny ****s can get laid too. What's your point?Look up amateur and home made porn and see how many out of shape and bald guys getting laid.
Improve yourself for you, but don’t use it as an excuse why you can’t procreate when your genetics survived millions of years of evolution through worser times.
When did I say either of these things? All I'm saying it's easier with good hair, for literally the same reasons being tall or jacked helps.But if you’re going to give up just because you’re balding, that’s even worse than coping.
What makes you think our ancestors weren't complaining about their hairline either? They had to compete for female companionship too.Imagine your ancestors looking at you complain about your hair line when they had to kill wooly mammoths.
Really?He went to my high school.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yup. See fifth paragraph here.Really?
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Exactly. They talk about head shape, muscles and skin tone for bald compatibility, but nobody mentions whether it would fit their personality or not.The worse thing is my opinion is that you basically have to cease a portion of your identity, you become one of the baldies with the beard.
Exactly, it's no longer a guy that picks his own style but it's a style that demands a guy to match it.Exactly. They talk about head shape, muscles and skin tone for bald compatibility, but nobody mentions whether it would fit their personality or not.
Correct. Lookism past a certain threshold is bunk.I’ve been balding since 2015 and can only recall 2 times women made fun of my hairline (one of them was a female cousin). The other time was some chick at a club that tried to use me for drinks. She also told the bouncer I was bothering her after she saw I had little followers on instagram. But before we even exchanged instagram she was all over me. So it was lack of social media followers first, and then she backwards rationalized I wasn’t attractive due to balding.
Yes, these women exist. But if you’re going to give up just because you’re balding, that’s even worse than coping.
Do I plan to get a hair transplant? Yes I do. The same way fat guys plan to go to the gym. But I’m not going to quit the game or use that as an excuse for not getting laid.
Look up amateur and home made porn and see how many out of shape and bald guys getting laid.
Improve yourself for you, but don’t use it as an excuse why you can’t procreate when your genetics survived millions of years of evolution through worser times.
Imagine your ancestors looking at you complain about your hair line when they had to kill wooly mammoths.
Yeah, for example, I’m not an overly masculine guy. 100% straight but somewhere between “normie” and “metrosexual.”Exactly, it's no longer a guy that picks his own style but it's a style that demands a guy to match it.
And let's not forget that if you ever hint that you dont like overweight women, you're a monster but at the same time if people throws jokes over bald guys not only it's fine but the guy himself needs to laught not make others at discomfort.
This is one of the many cases where men are not allowed to have preferences but need mandatory to just not be uncomfortable to others.
"Just have your head bro", can you imagine to tell a older woman "just dress like your grandma, own your condition, sister"
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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