"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you say you look for fun or for relationship ++ are the latter even working

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I think its some sort of trap question at least on tinder because lets be honest, if shes looking for fun then its about your look.

if shes looking for relationship specifically on tinder then you can be 100% sure its about your look AND wallet AND possibly getting other things for free from you (example making use of your popular IG, or moving in your home after a while, using your car, using you to drive her somewhere, getting invites for parties, etc).


its said that sex only relationships are shallow but if a girl looks for a boyfriend on tinder and she points it our clearly "not looking for fun" etc then what actually she means?

are even relationships from tinder possible? i had one lasting 3 months then she switched me for someone else as i just had sex with her and no more activities.




i mean, if a MAN qualifies for match (means he qualifies for sex look-wise) on tinder (its also proof that he qualifies for 10 matches+ a day) AND then he qualifies for relationship with some picky hoe (status/money/personality/whatever, which make him EVEN BETTER catch) and shes not even hot its IMPOSSIBLE to make a relationship


can anyone explain me how this works? what im supposed to answer? i tried the thing "for fun at first, but if we will fit each other, then we will see what future brings" but most of the time it didnt work.

most chicks are butthurted about anything sex related there but what kind of relationship do they seek anyway.
 

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