"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you sarge?

Do you sarge?

  • Yes

    Votes: 18 69.2%
  • No

    Votes: 8 30.8%

  • Total voters
    26

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Single_Sucks

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I go out because I like having fun. Women being there is a bonus which I take into consideration but not the sole reason.
 

daygameguy

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I think there should be a poll on how often do people socialize or go out to meet girls AND have fun.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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I personally think sarging is a great idea, if thats ur sole intention. To meet girls, why lie to ourselves? I mean, sure we don't have to sarge, but if u want to...why try to lie to urself about it?
 

Rhoto

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Define approaching girls.

Because I'll approach any female that interests me at any time.

I don't have the time to troll for booty however.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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